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My OCD is looping so bad on this. I really don’t know how I’m going to survive this breakup. My relationship was ruined from ROCD and all the faith he had left in me is gone. People keep telling me he’s going to come back eventually and I really feel it too, but I know it isn’t guaranteed. Nothing is. I don’t know what to spend my days doing anymore. The thought of talking to him makes me panic. I have to see him at work in a few days and I just can’t bear it. I can’t fix things, he won’t let me. How do I get him to understand? I know I can’t do anything… I know nothing I say will work right now. But will it ever? He said he still loves me. But he can’t date me. I’m crushed and I feel like it can’t be over.. I just wish he understood and believe me, I tried. I can’t stop imagining him talking to other girls it’s making me sick. What can I do????

Anonymous

Date posted: 7h

Try to understand that there are 8.7 billion ppl on this planet, and we have many soulmates scattered everywhere. That man does not require your energy, especially since you sound like you need to fill up your own bucket and he isn’t there to fill yours for you. Remember, he’s showing his true colors right now. It doesn’t sound like a fun time to be around a guy who says that they would love me but not be able to be with me.

Anonymous

Date posted: 7h

Please try to keep people in your life who actually help you grow. His energy sounds negative and flat.

Preslie18

Date posted: 7h

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Preslie18

Date posted: 7h

I was told once that people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. As I’ve gone through life and had people leave me, I can’t agree more. It’s been hard for me to let go of relationships and certain friendships, but the saying couldn’t be more true. Don’t give up hope, I can promise it gets better. This guy also doesn’t seem like someone who could benefit you in the long run. You will find your person.

Anonymous

Date posted: 7h

I think the more important thing is focusing on yourself. The “I don’t know what to spend my days doing anymore” sounds like he was your everything but it’s important when you get into relationships that you also have yourself, it’s okay to miss the one person you love. I’m pretty sure he understands and he still loves you that’s amazing but right now he doesn’t want a relationship and that’s okay. You can’t force anything, it sounds like you depended on him a lot and now that you don’t have him anymore you don’t know what to do. I’ve seen your post for the past couple of days and it is your ocd speaking but you can’t want help if you don’t receive information well. It sounds like you want us to feed your ocd and tell you “hell yeah girl go back” and that’s not what people are telling you. It’s important you focus you more than everybody else at this time. You need to be depended on yourself before you think about getting into another relationship. I’m sure he believes and understands 100% but it doesn’t want to date then don’t go find someone else but go find yourself. Be kind to yourself you need it

designer_girl✨

Date posted: 7h

Reposting all of these replies because 💯 👏🏾 @bsquiggled remember this…the MOST important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself 🫶🏾✨ and take care of you, you deserve care and treat your ocd for you, not him. Your feelings are valid. Give yourself all of the love and hugs right now

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