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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 20d
Period!!
There those crazy thoughts are again! I’ve been waiting for you. I’ve been waiting to shut you down! You will not affect my night!
There those crazy thoughts are again! I’ve been waiting for you. I’ve been waiting to shut you down! You will not affect my night!
You got this my friend!! You’re super strong! You’ll have a great night and those thoughts don’t have to be given any energy. All of your amazing energy can be given to the things you love and care about :)
@Boooperbear You are so right! Thank you for your kind words and much love to you! I hope you’re having a good day/night!
@This Ocd Life Sucks You’re welcome! My day is going alright, just trying to stay present and not get in my head too much. If you end up having any intense anxiety or thoughts, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m definitely here for you!
@Boooperbear Thank you! 💕 I’m glad your day is going good!
@This Ocd Life Sucks You’re welcome :) that’s what friends are for!! Do you have any plans this evening to keep yourself occupied?
@Boooperbear I’m working out now! It seems to be the only thing that helps me!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Hey that’s great! I workout 3 times a week to keep my mental health in check and it can definitely help! Scenic runs are my favorite but the gym definitely gets the blood flowing!
@Boooperbear That’s great! It’s my peace lol I have a home gym I try to work out 3 days a week and I run 5 to 7 miles 5 days a week. I think it’s the most helpful for me!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Dang that’s awesome!! I work where I live so I try and go out to workout. Otherwise I think I’d be doing everything that I do in life in one place lol.
@Boooperbear Oh yeah I get that! Lol
@Boooperbear My contamination OCD will not let me use gym equipment! I’ve tried several times because I would much rather do that, but it ended horribly! Actually , that’s probably a good exposure for me lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks Awe I’m so sorry :( are you okay? I had a couple exposures to germs today with people around me that were sick and it’s definitely made me feel very uncomfortable. So in a way I kinda feel you there.
@Boooperbear Oh yes, I’m fine. This was many years ago. I have since bought a home gym. lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks Ohhhh I see, I misread your comment. I totally get that though!!
@Boooperbear lol I thought you might have! I’m doing therapy tonight at 9 wish me luck. I’ll have a new exposure to do and I’m nervous.
@This Ocd Life Sucks Awe okay, I’ll keep you in my thoughts! I hope it goes well and I’m here if you wanna talk afterwards!
@Boooperbear Ughhh it’s horrible, this exposure is going to be so hard! lol Do you do any erp?
@This Ocd Life Sucks I’m so sorry friend :( I know how scary it is :/ and yes I’ve been doing some erp. I just started a couple weeks ago. It feels brutal.
@Boooperbear Yessss I’m about a month in it’s very intimidating!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh good for you though! You should be proud of yourself :)
@Boooperbear Thank you my friend and you should be proud too!
@This Ocd Life Sucks I’m trying to be, I’m definitely nervous for my therapy session tomorrow
@Boooperbear You got this! Let me know how it goes! I hope your exposure is easier then mine lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks I’ll let you know :)
@Boooperbear Xxx 💕
@This Ocd Life Sucks Thank you for being so supportive. I appreciate you!!!
@Boooperbear Of course! Im always hear!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Same :)
@Boooperbear Hey! Hope you’re doing well today!
It helps me remember that it's normal for us to have our tougher days. Just like waves. Observe it and remember that it will fluctuate.
@Erichelle You’re so right, thank you!
You can do this!
@Anonymous Thank you for your kind words!
Hey I’m doing okay dealing with a sick chicken. How’s your day going? Have you went to therapy yet?
@This Ocd Life Sucks Awe I’m sorry to hear that! And yeah I did, definitely a little scary but I’m doing alright.
@Boooperbear I’m doing exposures on contamination this week and it’s gonna feel intense.
@Boooperbear Oh yes those are intense! But you got this you can do it!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Thank you :) I appreciate you!!
@Boooperbear And I appreciate you my friend! 💕
@This Ocd Life Sucks My anxiety about getting sick is so bad right now that I legit feel like I’m getting sick, it’s very annoying.
@Boooperbear I’m so sorry. I’ve been the same today! I’ve had 2 panic attacks about it already!
@Boooperbear I hate when I have anxiety like this cause I immediately wanna go to the doctor. It’s so annoying.!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Awe I’m sorry to hear that :( if you’re ever having a panic attack and wanna talk, you can always reach out!
@Boooperbear Ok thank you, and same for you!
@This Ocd Life Sucks I know when I have panic attacks, sometimes I isolate and it becomes hard to reach out to people. So I totally understand if it’s like that for you as well. But just know that I’m definitely here to support you if you need it :)
@Boooperbear Oh yes I do the same, I’ve been trying hard not to do that though and just stay busy.
@This Ocd Life Sucks Sounds like you’ve been doing a pretty good job at it! I’m trying my hardest but it feels like I end up shifting to another ocd thought or topic and creating an all new spiral just trying to get out of my current spiral sometimes 😅😅
@Boooperbear Yep I do this too! My theme’s change so much I hate it! We just have to keep fighting it!
@This Ocd Life Sucks At least we can relate lol.
@Boooperbear Most definitely! This helps me so much!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Same!
@Boooperbear Look at my sweet boy, he was so happy to go on a ride with me today!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Omg your dog is so cute! Thanks for sharing with me :) I love all the animals you have in your life!
@Boooperbear Thank you here are the my other 2 girls. The bigger one is the mom to the little one lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks
@This Ocd Life Sucks Omg ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Boooperbear My three boys napping :)
@Boooperbear Omg I love them! They are so cute! My daughter said she so jealous. lol she wants cats so bad.
@This Ocd Life Sucks Awe! I love animals so much ❤️ these cats mean so much to me and I think of them like my kids 😅
@Boooperbear I’m the same with my dogs lol so I totally get it!
@This Ocd Life Sucks That’s great :) well I’m gonna get some rest, I hope you have a good rest of your night :)
@Boooperbear Goodnight! Sweet dreams!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Thank you 😊 I didn’t sleep well at all but that’s okay hahaha
@Boooperbear That’s my new home gym! I’m obsessed with it lol
Sammeeeee! lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks Awe I’m sorry! You doing okay today? I was gonna reach out earlier but work has been super busy!
@Boooperbear I’m managing I’ve had lots of intrusive thoughts today so it’s been rough! But I just finished working out! Lol I feel a little better after that.
@This Ocd Life Sucks Omg that’s such a cool gym! I love the colors of the equipment too!
@Boooperbear Thank you! I love it too!
I hope you can relax, put your feet up, and have a good evening without too much stress!!
@Boooperbear Unfortunately I can’t lay down and relax until around 11 I have so much to do! I’m kinda a night owl. lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh that’s fair, I am too so I completely get it lol.
@Boooperbear You’re so awesome for having that home gym though, that is really cool!!
@Boooperbear Thank you!! 💕
@This Ocd Life Sucks You’re welcome :) its nice that I’m friends with someone who also loves working out and has ocd :) haha
@Boooperbear Yes it is nice! I’m an outdoor person. I can’t wait for it cool down so I can get outside more. It helps my OCD so much! This Florida heat kills me lol so I can’t be outside too long!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh okay! I’m in Washington and I definitely love hikes, exploring the forests around here, and I loveeeee beaches and lakes. I get a lot of peace just sitting next to water and gazing out. I’ve always wanted to go to Florida though!!!
@Boooperbear Washington sounds nice! A nice hike would be great! lol Our beaches are nice. I live 20 minutes for Pensacola Beach and 1 hour from Destin Beach. I’ve lived here all my life so its not a big deal to me lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh that’s really cool! Your life sounds so interesting and exciting!!
@Boooperbear Meh it’s alright lol, it’s boring if you ask me haha
@This Ocd Life Sucks Yeah I get that, that’s how my life feels haha. But it’s fun learning more about you!
@Boooperbear Well thank you! I enjoy our conversations!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Same!!
@Boooperbear Did you make anything for dinner tonight?(:
@Boooperbear Yeah I made chili and salad at my daughters request. For me it’s too hot out for chili lol I only ate the salad. I’m a vegetarian though so I wouldn’t have eaten it regardless. I don’t cook every night because it’s just me and my daughters and most of the time they aren’t home or have eaten somewhere else. lol
@Boooperbear Did you cook?
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh I bet it was really good though!! I just made some really basic teriyaki lol. I’m feeling very low energy tonight so I didn’t wanna make anything elaborate. What’s your favorite food to eat?(:
@Boooperbear I like anything pasta! Any kind of vegetable except mushrooms I absolutely hate them. I typically eat tofu in place of meat. I will occasionally eat grilled chicken depending on who cooks it lol. I mostly don’t like red meat and pork.
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh I see! I’m with you though, I looooveeeeeee noodles and pasta ❤️
@Boooperbear Yessss, i’m a horrible eater, though very picky! But I’m starting to get to where I want to experience new things.
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh that’s awesome you’re wanting to experience new flavors though!! I’ve been cooking for so many years and constantly am trying to challenge myself to do new things and try new foods. I eat like everything lol. Do you have a favorite dessert?(:
@Boooperbear I need someone to cook for me it is such a chore. I haven’t tried many desserts besides cakes and pies lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks I’ve always wanted to be a private chef! And I’m obsessed with cheesecake and crème brûlée :)
@Boooperbear I’ve never had either!! I can hire you as my private chef but I think the distance might complicate things lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks Haha I’ll figure out the logistics and be your private chef 😂
@Boooperbear Random question, how tall are you?
@This Ocd Life Sucks I’m 5’11
@Boooperbear Okkkkk lol I’m 5’2
@This Ocd Life Sucks You’re completely fine!! You’re more than welcome to ask me things! That’s part of getting to know someone :)
@Boooperbear that’s true! Well i’m an open book so you can ask me whatever!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Same here!
@Boooperbear What are your favorite things to do for relaxation?
@Boooperbear I like to work out or go on walks. Spending time outside usually.
@This Ocd Life Sucks That’s great :) I’m excited for rainy day fall walks!
@Boooperbear There’s some amazing hiking and scenic spots in Washington / Oregon! If you ever travel to this area, you’ll probably love it! There’s some cool caves and stuff too!
@Boooperbear Oh really? I definitely need to come your way then! I love seeing stuff like that!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Yes!!! You definitely should :)
@Boooperbear Maybe in February when we take a vacation. How’s the weather there then?
@This Ocd Life Sucks In February pretty cold and rainy haha. But it’s still fun if you’re bundled up :)
@Boooperbear I’d much rather it be cold then hot!
@Boooperbear I’m just now finally laying down! lol it’s been a very busy day!
@This Ocd Life Sucks I’m glad you’re resting :) you deserve it!!!
@Boooperbear What do you do for work?
@This Ocd Life Sucks I’m a maintenance supervisor at an apartment complex :)
@Boooperbear You?(:
@Boooperbear Im the office manager for my dads plumbing company. I’ve had the same job since I was 18. lol
@This Ocd Life Sucks Oh that’s so cool!!
@Boooperbear I’ve been in this job for 5 years now and I really love helping people and making people’s homes feel cared for!
@Boooperbear Sounds like a fun job!
@This Ocd Life Sucks It can be! It’s very busy haha. Thank you for talking with me tonight by the way, my anxiety has felt pretty low and it’s been fun getting to know you!
@Boooperbear That’s awesome! That’s what friends are for! I’m glad I can help! I’m here always!
@This Ocd Life Sucks Thank youuu :)
@This Ocd Life Sucks Hey :) your hope day is going well!
@Boooperbear Random question again what kind of music do you listen to? And what games do you like to play? Your bio said you played video games. My daughter wanted me to ask. lol she plays video games too…
My day is OK it could be better! How’s your day going?
I love 70’s to 90’s rock, lo fi, jazz, some older rap music, and some other random genres lol. And I loveeee anything Nintendo :) I’m definitely a retro video game player but we have new systems too!
@Boooperbear We also have a new Xbox and ps5! So feel free to add me if you ever want to and have an account! Hahaha
@Boooperbear Ohhhh I see I’m the same as far as music and if I had to play it would definitely be Nintendo haha!
@Boooperbear Oh I don’t play those my daughter has the ps5 she plays all the games.
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