a one wish willow would hate to see me coming

forget wishing for love and success! im wishing for total sanity. for freedom and a sound mind; perhaps those two are one and the same. i need to focus on gratitude. ocd makes it easy to get swept up in chaos and nonsense. but when it rains, i remember all my pets and family are safe inside, and i have a bed. i get to watch spongebob before falling asleep. someone’s one wish would be for such simplicity.

liahmichelle

Date posted: Yesterday

I totally am listening! Agreed.

Tea and Honey

Date posted: Yesterday

I hear you

sick&tired

Date posted: 23h

More than anything I want the same basic things. And I’m glad you have these comforts. 🩷 I saw in another thread that you were also autistic and a survivor of abuse. I was wondering if you had any success pursuing justice? I’m currently dealing with this and it’s very discouraging as I don’t have much evidence. I’m scared no one will take my case seriously and not only will he walk free, but it will also damage my reputation if I don’t succeed. I would appreciate any input. I’m AuDHD with OCD.

aotmn

Date posted: 16h

@sick&tired im audhd too my beloved 💗 so basically what happened (without including distressing details) is when i was 19 my former partner started cheating on me and became very abusive emotionally, mentally, and a couple other ways. he ended up marrying her, and while the experience i had was deeply traumatic, unfortunately as a woman i knew nothing would happen and i was scared of him and his family. when i was 23 (TW) i was SA’d a series of times by a man that was in his late 30s. to this day, i wish i had taken legal action. that being said, FUCK what that guy has to say about you. you hold the power, even if you don’t think so. YOU survived this abuse. he will always be an abuser. and if he comes for your reputation, you go for his. be open about what happened. do not relinquish your power. the ball is in your court and i want you to remember that. i see you, i believe you, and im here for you. sending you so much love. i know its hard.

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