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If you need anything or have any questions, know you can always turn to us
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Hi there, I have had OCD since I was 5 (im now 34). It wasn't until this past year that I really and truly got the real help that I needed. Back in the 80s they didn't know much about it but there has been considerable advancement in treatment. My best advice is to do what you're doing, learn as much about it as you can. Ocd manifests itself in ways I would never have realized. An excellent book is called "when a family member has OCD" by John Hershfield. He breaks it down really well - I only read it fairly recently and learned a lot from it and I thought I knew it all! Best of luck to you and your son.
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And I thank you for that! We just got through a rough month and he’s turning the corner again and improving. He was diagnosed at 5 and is now 8.
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What can we help you learn more about? Do you need additional treatment resources, general education, direction to help your son, etc? Whatever you need just name it
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I’m looking for anything that might help me help him. I’ve studied the websites and have been reading and learning as much I can since he’s been diagnosed. Would love another perspective from others who grew up with it. He does so well and I’m afraid of major setbacks. I know it waxed and waned so I know it can happen at any time. I try so hard to stay on top of things. I think of his future a lot!
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If it helps, here are a couple things I can tell you (as someone with OCD): 1) OCD treatment is improving at an exponential rate. There is a good chance in five years your son will have incredible treatment resources at his fingertips 24/7. 2) some of the most successful people have OCD, and although it can be challenging, it makes us stronger. OCD pushed me to where I am today. Besides online content, have you listened to any podcasts or talked to any people living with OCD in a manageable way?
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Thank you!! Just online content and books his psychiatrist recommended. No podcasts. I did find a support group on FB for parents of children with with ocd that has been helpful. But I haven’t talked to or met anyone else living with with OCD.
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This is Stephen Smith, I have OCD and founded nOCD a couple years ago. Can you reach out to our email info@nocdhelp.com? I'd love to talk and give you info about living with OCD, resources, etc. (if you want of course)
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Thank you Stephen and thank all of you! This is more helpful than you know. We are working so hard at this and my goal is to Jersey as positive as possible because, well, negativity doesn’t bring progress. I have anxiety and depression myself so it’s a little easier me to be understanding of what he’s dealing with. But seeing your child struggle is never easy. I know with what he’s fighting against he’s tougher that most give him credit for. I admire all of you for fighting the fight and reaching out to help others! Thank you.
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Seriously autocorrect. Forget Jersey, Jersey has nothing to with any of this. ?
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*waxes and wanes
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What is a common family joke. OCD is hereditary on my father's side. However I also live with complex PTSD, and ADHD. I didn't learn till recently how severe my OCD is and the intensity gets amplified if the though goes to either of the other two. It's a loop I've identified recently... just little too late. I've lived with OCD for years not really addressing it till I see that's the very reason I cause damage to loved ones. I'm married, 33, a vet. My marriage is not in the best place now. I have a son who's 4 and already showing signs of OCD. Currently my marriage is at a point where we are working on ourselves. It's discovered that my wife's issues are reflections of my own. I understand fully now that I am the center of the issues but also the solution. I need help for me. What happens with my relationships depends on me showing that I am better and able to process thoughts and emotions better. Journaling helps alot. Trying to do hobbies or this that and 3rd but. I'm willing to try anything. Things are on a line. I'm open to any and all POV and ideas. I'm not out crying. I'm taking a big step for me. Something 25 years over due. Thank you for reading this. As I tell myself now. You'll best this and be better
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