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If you need anything or have any questions, know you can always turn to us
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Hi there, I have had OCD since I was 5 (im now 34). It wasn't until this past year that I really and truly got the real help that I needed. Back in the 80s they didn't know much about it but there has been considerable advancement in treatment. My best advice is to do what you're doing, learn as much about it as you can. Ocd manifests itself in ways I would never have realized. An excellent book is called "when a family member has OCD" by John Hershfield. He breaks it down really well - I only read it fairly recently and learned a lot from it and I thought I knew it all! Best of luck to you and your son.
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And I thank you for that! We just got through a rough month and he’s turning the corner again and improving. He was diagnosed at 5 and is now 8.
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What can we help you learn more about? Do you need additional treatment resources, general education, direction to help your son, etc? Whatever you need just name it
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I’m looking for anything that might help me help him. I’ve studied the websites and have been reading and learning as much I can since he’s been diagnosed. Would love another perspective from others who grew up with it. He does so well and I’m afraid of major setbacks. I know it waxed and waned so I know it can happen at any time. I try so hard to stay on top of things. I think of his future a lot!
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If it helps, here are a couple things I can tell you (as someone with OCD): 1) OCD treatment is improving at an exponential rate. There is a good chance in five years your son will have incredible treatment resources at his fingertips 24/7. 2) some of the most successful people have OCD, and although it can be challenging, it makes us stronger. OCD pushed me to where I am today. Besides online content, have you listened to any podcasts or talked to any people living with OCD in a manageable way?
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Thank you!! Just online content and books his psychiatrist recommended. No podcasts. I did find a support group on FB for parents of children with with ocd that has been helpful. But I haven’t talked to or met anyone else living with with OCD.
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This is Stephen Smith, I have OCD and founded nOCD a couple years ago. Can you reach out to our email info@nocdhelp.com? I'd love to talk and give you info about living with OCD, resources, etc. (if you want of course)
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Thank you Stephen and thank all of you! This is more helpful than you know. We are working so hard at this and my goal is to Jersey as positive as possible because, well, negativity doesn’t bring progress. I have anxiety and depression myself so it’s a little easier me to be understanding of what he’s dealing with. But seeing your child struggle is never easy. I know with what he’s fighting against he’s tougher that most give him credit for. I admire all of you for fighting the fight and reaching out to help others! Thank you.
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Seriously autocorrect. Forget Jersey, Jersey has nothing to with any of this. ?
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*waxes and wanes
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Hi I kept seeing this app on repeat on TikTok over and over and I thought I give it a shot. I have never been diagnosed with OCD but I know that I have it. I’m a young adult and I found out the first time I had OCD was watching lelelons truth video? I was 14 at the time She had to resist sitting back down in a chair after her having sat down she started having a mental break down when she was told to resist. That’s when I knew. It started with myself going up and down a staircase twice buckling unbuckling my seat belt everytime I’m in the car ect I have always been super anti social but trying my best I can socialize but my mind wants to make it sexual with family and friends ughhhh I hate it because that’s not me when I graduated thoughts of hurting my loved ones corrupted my mind I broke down outside of church one time asking if this was really me or not i question if I’m a good enough friend or person in this world to begin with thinking everyone is judging me so so close how can I make this situation better did I do something wrong I struggle with depression as well not to bad but it’s there I come from a loving family but broken as well i believe in god and my OCD makes me go often he’s not real that stuff isn’t real no one is there to save you the list goes on. Anyway I struggle a lot and I really hope that this will help me because I feel extremely hopeless. Lucky for me I do have the ability to seek therapy and I am excited. The only person I ever tell my thoughts to is God no other human has heard so I’m really really hoping this helps me out if your reading this thank you it means a lot because this is my first time ever admitting all this it’s a lot to take in I know and I hope you are ok and that you have a great night and know that we got this
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Hi everyone, I’m Cayla. I’m a mom that’s lived with OCD since childhood, but my breaking point came more recently after having my son. I was consumed by terrifying thoughts—What if I hurt him? What if I did something awful without realizing it? I was so afraid of my own mind that I couldn’t be alone with him. The shame and exhaustion were unbearable, and I convinced myself I was broken. In 2024, I finally sought help. ERP therapy at NOCD was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but it saved my life. Even now, I have tough days, but I know I don’t have to be ruled by OCD. When my 12 year old daughter began showing signs of OCD, I felt overwhelmed with guilt. I never wanted her to go through what I had, but I knew what to do. I told her that I have OCD too and made sure she knew it wasn’t her fault—and that she wasn’t alone. One of the hardest parts of this journey was trusting someone else with my daughter’s OCD. I knew how vulnerable it feels to share intrusive thoughts, and I wanted her to feel safe. Her NOCD therapist was able to establish trust and genuine empathy from the start, and that relationship gave her the confidence to face ERP head-on. Seeing her build that trust made me certain she was in the right hands. ERP has helped both of us reclaim our lives, and it is beautiful to see my daughter managing her condition and making visible progress. Parenting with OCD while raising a child with OCD isn’t talked about enough, but I know so many parents are struggling with these same challenges. If you have questions about managing OCD while parenting, helping your child through ERP, or breaking cycles of guilt, drop them below—I’d love to share what I’ve learned. I’ll be answering all of the questions I receive in real-time today 4-5pm ET.
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A huge thank you to everyone. I am new to the app. I’m 28 years old and only recently discovered that my thoughts are a result of my OCD. It’s been so reassuring to hear other people managing the same thoughts I’ve been having.
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