honorroll1
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Mimi123Mimi123
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If you want to date boys that's a sign that you ain't gay! So chill! If you think you are your brain is going to act like you are! So just go with the flow and let boys get close to you! Maybe some happiness will lower your OCD! I was always afraid of dating guys! And I never been with a single girl only guys! So that doesn't mean shit! That just means that you might have low confidence in yourself and in your value
honorroll1honorroll1
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Thanks I appreciate it. It's just hard to let that happen when I can't even allow myself to open up or try to get to know them. Thanks for the advice.
Ski89Ski89
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@honorroll1 That’s normal in any relationship honestly, if you didn’t like men you’d be more scared of the kissing aspects of it and stuff
Mimi123Mimi123
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@Ski89 I was always scared that I might kiss badly so I didn't want them to kiss me and sex I didn't want guys to know I was a virgin! So it depends!
honorroll1honorroll1
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@Mimi123 Thats me rn exactly but im afraid of trusting people. -Once they get to know me, they may not like what they see. Idk I tend to overthink things soo much. ?♀️
Mimi123Mimi123
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@honorroll1 I had the same issues has you! And my psychologist is always saying that's why I've OCD! This lack of confidence makes us ruminate about every little detail! And we forget about what other people see in us
honorroll1honorroll1
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@Mimi123 Oh wow i thought it was just me. Are there any exercises that she gave you for that? Like Im always worried about what people think, if there talking about me etc.
Mimi123Mimi123
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@honorroll1 I used to be like that and that's something I learned with life! Do you talk about other people? Of course you do? Sometimes you complain about something or sometimes you just say good things about them! But in the end you only talk a lot about the people you care about! So yeah of course people talk about you! But that doesn't means they don't like you! It means that they give you distinction! In my country we have a saying which is "love me or hate me, but please don't ignore me"! That's the way life works! I was always worried that my friends were saying bad things behind my back, but at the end I figured, usually what I say behind their back I always end up telling them face to face because of same fight or power measure! So chill this is the way humans work!
honorroll1honorroll1
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@Mimi123 Thanks. I appreciate it. Just have to conquer the fear of letting people ( guys really ) get close to me lol. But it'll b fine.
Mimi123Mimi123
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@honorroll1 Just know what is your value! Guys love confident girls! So just act like your one and you'll become one!
Ski89Ski89
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In what sense are you afraid of them? Like touching, kissing? Or is it more of the trust and vulnerableness factor
honorroll1honorroll1
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Trust and vunerability, so it makes the physical aspect Intense anxiety also
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