What’s the difference between bisexual and HOCD

Omg so simple and so true

So if your distressed about the thought of being bi your not?? Cause I’m so distressed that I’ve been lying to myself my whole life and that I’m not straight and that I’m in dneial but don’t know

@uwotm8 So if your distressed about the thought of being bi your not?? Cause I’m so distressed that I’ve been lying to myself my whole life and that I’m not straight and that I’m in dneial but don’t know

@Dre249 Well yeah, think about it!! Gay people don’t feel anxious about being gay and bisexual people don’t feel anxious about being bisexual because they just accept that’s what they are You only feel anxious because ocd is making you go “what if I never knew who I really was all this time?” It’s not really about sexuality

@uwotm8 So I’m straight if I love it and don’t get distressed and that I do get distressed of being gay/bi means I’m not gay/bi. 10000%???

@Dre249 You ain’t no bro it’s just OCD if you were born str8 then you will stay str8 you can’t just randomly turn gay it doesn’t work like that so it’s just your OCD think of your thoughts as it’s just OCD and it will go away eventually and don’t let your thoughts bother you

@jakefiresen I’m worried that I’m bi and that I’ve I’m hella scared that I’ve pretended being straight and not know I pretended and that I’ve been bi my whole life without a sign of me being bi.

@Dre249 People who are bi don’t worry about being bi

@uwotm8 But I don’t know if I am bi

@Dre249 Or if HOCD is fucking with me

@Dre249 You’d know if you were lol

@uwotm8 So I’m not if I don’t know

@Dre249 Do you have sex and or relationships with both men and women?

Yeah bro man could help me figure out if I’m bi or not

When HOCD started I was 10000% sure I was straight when it first started now, it’s like I don’t know seriously don’t know

@Dre249 You’re not bi lol bisexual people don’t sit there ruminating and trying to “work it out”

@uwotm8 Yo sure cause I’m so worried I don’t want 2 options I only want to be straight but what if I want to be straight so bad that it’s masking a secret self or something

@Dre249 The fact you WANT to be straight is just screaming ocd lol ? it’s attacking what you want

@Dre249 Do you want to have sex or relationships with men? If you do then yeah you’re probably bisexual but judging everything you have said you’re very clearly straight and suffering from ocd

@uwotm8 No no I don’t want that at all I just want a wife and kids one day but my desire is like gone and my “HOCD” is saying you like men stop lying

@Dre249 There you! Bingo!! You know you’re straight. Ocd will do ANYTHING to convince you it’s everything BUT ocd Don’t waste time trying to “work out” something you already know deep down. It’s definitely without a doubt ocd messing with you. You need to work out how to handle ocd, nothing else They always say it’s not about the content and that’s completely true. We all suffer the same but our themes are different. It’s all ocd though that’s what you need to focus on

@uwotm8 Why do I feel like I’m 100% lying

@Dre249 Because you have ocd

@uwotm8 What about that I’ve lost so much desire for a girl and a wife in the future??

@uwotm8 Do you not know the answer to my question. About the desire and how I lost it to have a wife and kids and I’m the future and girlfriend

@Dre249 You have ocd I hate seeing you suffer but you need to believe it’s ocd

@uwotm8 Thank you so damn fucking much. So no I’m not bi if I don’t want to or fear it?? And they don’t ruminate 24/7??

@Dre249 Absolutely not! They would just go about life!!

@uwotm8 I have a YouTube (https://youtu.be/xMg6OT5UPpQ) video when I was 10 I’m 16 now and in the video do I sound gay?? (I’m the one singing)

Distressed in what way?

I’m not really sure how the sexuality theme fits into this so I am certain it’s ocd fucking with you

@uwotm8 I didn't want to get too into the sexual part, but like, I just don't want him to touch me anymore. I don't like sex anymore, I don't like cuddling, I don't want his affection, but I love him so much I don't think I could leave. What if I just did it all because I thought I was supposed to and I just love him as a friend/family. We've both talked about the possibility that were just meant to be friends, but he doesn't know that I feel that way because I think im not into him in that way, and I don't know why he feels that way so that just sets off a whole new obsession circle