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But I still struggle with the thoughts of not liking him
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I don't know what the hell happened
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Was u together long? Iv been with my partner for 6 years and were due to. Marry this. Year
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Because I got anxiety
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Yeah, I don't know what love is...I thought it was a choice and now I'm questioning that
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Thank you...very much appreciated, we have been in correspondence
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Glad for u don't give up on what u may have we can never be sure of its right or not we. Just have to accept the uncertainty as hard as it is and keep moving forward good luck
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Thank you so much for your time, I don't know if it's my ocd or if it's just my authentic feelings
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In my opinion if its constantly there not a mins let up and u feel shocking for thinking the things and feeling the things ur feeling then I'd say ocd
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I gave up the fight and ended my relationship...I kept having strong feelings that I did not love him...they wouldn't go away, I would wake up with the urge to break up with him and I'd push it aside but then it just took over and I couldn't push it aside anymore :'(
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And do u feel better for. Doing that or not
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Both
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Do u miss him?
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@gavsherry Of course
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I feel like I wasn't in complete control of my emotions and thought they must be true if I feel this way...I'm glad to be rid of the thoughts but not entirely glad to be rid of the relatipnship
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See I can't stand the thought of being without her it then I get urges to break up etc and do I really love her I know I love her but keep battering myself with the intrusive thoughts
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We were together for 8 months
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We met in July and then we started dating in oct
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My rocd just started out of. No where after 5 years together happily and I just woke. Up 1 morning and. All. These thoughts were there and anxiety was through the roof
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Well it started with the thoughts and then the feeling I was not in love and then the feeling I was a liar amd it just snowballed and I could no longer enjoy his company :'(
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Iv had the same but then seemed to have got through it but relapsed a little
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@gavsherry Really??? With your current gf?
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@Racheljustine Yes suffered on and off for 2 years I get to the point where I'm getting physical urges to end it then I just break down with emotion and relief because she is who I want to be with we get on great so why change it she is a fantastic partner and mother so why change it I really love her when it matter the most all the negativity in between is just my ocd doing its thing don't give up as I said iv passed it and relapsed a few times if it was true and what I really wanted I wouldn't feel anything I'd just go but it's so upsetting because she means so much to me
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How people define being in love is a focus point also I see being in love as going to the worst possible scenarios life can throw at u and if ur partner is there unconditionally no matter what then they are worth giving ur love to that's why I say loves a choice not the Hollywood bull 90% of the human race believe it to be
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Couple of things my dad said before he passed away for every setback there is always a comback to be a winner we must first learn to lose and to appreciate being on top u have to have looked up from the bottom ready to climb up... I try and keep these theories with me as I genuinely want to be with my partner if I listened to my thoughts and feelings all the time I would never have left the house and got a job or tried new things that scared me incase of failure I'm getting better but as the saying goes it will get worse before it gets better we can't change yesterday but we can try and change tomorrow good luck stay strong u can do this and if u feel like u wanna. Talk. To ur ex if u feel scared go with it if u don't thats OK to but we have to come. To a point that we say NO OCD I'M NOT LETTING U KEEP DOING THIS TO ME
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