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Thanks for the post. I find that I can accept pretty much every thought except false memories. They seem so much scarier because they can feel so real and as you said cause a great deal of uncertainty about the future. I got really lost in trying to figure them out yesterday which of course only made them feel more real and assign that sense of familiarity. I do feel more hopeful today somehow after a sleepless night. I wish you the best of luck on your journey as well.
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No problem man. Yeah false memories are usually scarier because they like to latch onto things that would scare us/shame us the most. I’m not sure your whole situation, but I have so many false memories about a real event that took place 5 or 6 months ago. Just stay strong, and I have no doubt you’ll get through it soon enough.
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I’m starting to believe mine. When I first became concerned I had no recollection of my feared events but now I’ve had so many images and scenarios come up from ruminating that I feel like they are real memories even though I know that when you remember something you generally have all the details come at once instead of I’ve the course of weeks. I hate this so much
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That’s exactly me. I have false memories that attached itself to a real event of mine, and it’s practically ruined me the past 5 months or so. I always figure that I’d be able what’s true without a problem, but I’ve been ruminating so much, that I’ve been doubting myself.
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Sorry to hear that man. Hope the meds work out. I used to take Zoloft when I was a kid and I remember it working pretty well with very little side effects. I hope therapy works for you as well. I started therapy a few weeks ago and apparently I actually have GAD instead of OCD. I’ve been starting to get better but the last two days are the worst I’ve had in weeks. But that’s how it goes I guess. Excercise and mindfulness meditation have done wonders for me though. I definitely recommend them. I hope you continue to improve. Keep your head up and just remember to take it one day at a time
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You too man! Best of luck on your journey. I know we will get through this!
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I’m going through this right now, and I’ve been struggling with it everyday for about 5 months. One exercise I’ve been doing is to learn to just accept that I’m going to have those thoughts run through my mind; there’s nothing you can do. However, I’m doing everything I can to avoid any compulsions, or let those thoughts get the best of me. But it’s tough to do when those false memories could possibly have a significant impact on your future. I’ve found that over time, avoiding the compulsions will help weaken the false memories, but like I said, I’m in the process of it right now. I wish you the best of luck, and I know we will both get through it!
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I hate how it can even have a sense of familiarity to it. That’s what is most triggering for me. It totally sells me on the lie and I fall for it every damn time. It makes me feel like I should tell my wife just in case it is true but I don’t want to damage our marriage over my stupid mental disorder
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Man, I did something like 5 months ago that I thought would hurt me and my girlfriends relationship, and it was right before I was going to move in with her. Luckily it didn’t and it was all good, and she’s been really supporting of everything. It was a big weight off my shoulder, but didn’t solve everything. But that’s totally a personal call on your end.
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I have a confessing compulsion. My ocd tries to get me to feel the need to confess potential wrong doings that may or may not have ever happened on a regular basis just in case. I feel like I should wait it out but I hate how it makes me feel like I might be hiding something from her. It makes me feel distant. I hope you continue to do well on your journey. Have a good weekend
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Gotcha. I have a paranoia about getting in legal trouble. Always have for some reason. I’m sure we will both beat this condition, and be better because of it. Best of luck my friend. Have a good weekend as well!
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How are you doing now nick?
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Honestly, not any better unfortunately. I did start Zoloft last week, and my first therapy session is in 2, so we will see how it goes. How about you?
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