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Thanks! Can you elaborate a bit more on acceptance part? Anything you did in particular when it was affecting you a bit stronger?
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That's great JS!! So wonderful
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So blech I have pure o. It all started with a what if thought a year ago. I'm definitely improving but find it challenging to accept and allow thoughts. My latest tactic is to just agree with thoughts instead of fighting them.
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I think I need to work on letting the thoughts/guilt just be there and moving forward. I think the hardest thing is doing that for me.
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Agreeing with thoughts is actually such a good tip, it’s been helping me today
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@lilly_lu Yes my ocd therapist encourages you to agree with them because that’s the ERP! It does help. I think I’m stuck on forgiving myself
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@blech123 I think that’s the hardest thing for all of us today. We got this though! We can do hard things!
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@JS?? Thanks JS - I think mine issue is already pretty complex as I’ve been dealing with it for about a year and half now, hence I’ve already created some bad habits and anxieties ??♀️ but I do think that this is some great exercises to employ for other things that come along ?
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@Sunrise22 Thank you!! ?
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I’m in ERP therapy for POCD and it’s really messing with me. I feel so much guilt and shame because I have compulsions over it too and really struggle to forgive myself for them. How were you able to just let go? I think that’s what I struggle with most because I don’t think I deserve it
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It will get better. I don’t think it was my biggest problem, I just was able to recognize that my mind was just messing with me and say a giant fuck it to it
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I as well overcame contamination OCD. It was tough but once you come out of it, you realise the struggle was worth it! ?
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Congrats! Did you also do it by yourself or did you get therapy?
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@Sumsum I did it by using medication with controlling the compulsions of contamination OCD.
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Congrats!! How did you overcome it? Did you get therapy?
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No, for contamination I really had to just stop every time I had an urge to do something like clean etc. For others I just let it be and most importantly stopped internalizing it and trying to make sense of it. It just left eventually once I stopped fueling it and I was free.
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@lilly_lu For contamination, how long did you have it before you did this? And how long did you have to consciously stop your compulsions to clean before the obsessions went away?
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@??? It was a while ago, but I’ve had it for solid half a year, stopping it took like a month. For contamination what helps is try to get it more dirty lol, like drop your food on the floor and eat it, counteract it
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@lilly_lu Was your contamination OCD severe or mild?
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@Sumsum I’d say it was mostly mild but getting moderate
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@Sumsum That’s when it itself started freaking me out so much I’ve done everything to stop it
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@lilly_lu Hmm, maybe it's easier to stop it then when it's not severe.
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@Sumsum I still believe it’s possible for you to stop it even if it is really hard, you got this and we all are rooting for you if that’s what you’re struggling with!
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@Sumsum Also it’s not nice to undermine someone else’s experience
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Terrific Lilly!!!! Thanks for sharing.
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What about your pocd Lilly and blech?
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I’m still going through therapy for this, so I wouldn’t say I’m completely in recovery unfortunately :/. It’s hard because I have OCD, not just pure O, so I do physical compulsions too and it can leave a lot of shame and guilt. There’s good days and bad days but I try to do my ERP practices regularly and remind myself that I have a disorder and this isn’t who I am. How about you?
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Yeah i think that’s where the ERP vs CBT comes into play.
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Right. Allowing them to be there. Because we can't control our thoughts.
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