I’m tired of no one understanding what being obsessive means, as well if their hurtful judgements and lack of comprehension about our behavior ignoring completely that we are only doing our best... ironically our best..

I agree. It’s very frustrating. I get so upset when people just don’t understand that we can’t help the obsessions. And most importantly they don’t get the stress and anxiety it causes us. They often make it about them.

I’m sorry to hear that. Most people don’t understand what we deal with and can’t handle us. I’m dealing with my best friend ignoring me because we got into an argument earlier and I get too obsessive and text too much. For a best friend she should be understanding but she just blocks me and leaves me hanging. Try to stay strong.

The people who dumped you for the OCD/Anxiety issues don't deserve to be with you. You'll find better people, just give it some time. Getting so down on yourself for it will not help, I promise you.

Exactly. Focus on fixing the situation you're in and taking action. Don't dwell or spend so much time feeling sorry for yourself, as it will most likely only make the OCD and feelings worse. Accept the situation and do what you can to improve things.

I hear you both loud and clear! @Harisingh: what’s an example of when this happened to you recently?

My ex girlfriend broke up with me, because I was to “intense”, i tried to explain the whole thing to her, to which I’ve got this answer “I don’t think I can do someone like you”, and “I need someone more in control of himself “...

At the beginning she was so sweet, but at the end she couldn’t help it, she was mad grumpy and complaining about my obsessions.

@LaPink thanks for being so nice, I’m sorry to hear you went trough the same situation, but you know what they can stick their judgements and biases trough the arse, jejejeje someday the miracle will happen and that special someone is gonna come to our lifes