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Hi I swear I’m not stalking your posts (well maybe a little), but it sounds like you’re having an intense OCD episode right now. I can totally relate to this as lately I have been dealing with these episodes too. One of my main obsessions is about my medications and the compulsion is over-researching. Sometimes I’ll be so nervous that my medications might give me unpleasant side effects or that they won’t work that I spend hours researching them and reading countless articles about them trying to reassure myself that they are fine as they are and that my psychiatrist knows what he’s doing. I find that in these situations, it is best to take a step back from the thoughts that are ruminating in my head and instead of trying to suppress the thoughts, find a way to reduce the anxiety associated with them. One way I do this is by meditating. I recently downloaded an app, Insight Timer, on my phone and if I’m getting really anxious or my mind is a flight and simply wont stop, I grab my earbuds and pick a meditation to listen to. It really helps. You can also exercise which is good for reducing anxiety, and you can also try other mindfulness exercises. One that works really well for me is that I visualize an all-white room with two doors. Thoughts come into the room from the door on the left side of the room and while they’re in the room you practice just observing the thought, not engaging with it, not judging it, and then it leaves through the door on the right side of the room. Gone. Very often the same thought will return again and again through the door on the left, but you just keep practicing that same attitude of acceptance and non-judgmental observance every time it appears again. Try this for a few minutes and it might really help your anxiety. So I really hope this helps and I’m sorry you’re really struggling right now but know you’re not alone.
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Thankyou ❤❤❤. I am having an episode rn. Anything ambiguous triggers an episode. I'm aware not everything is my responsibility but I cant help but feel I need to check and makesure everyone and everything is safe, all of the time!!! Thankyou for taking the time out to write such a long response, i really appreciate when someone cares enough to do that. I will try to download the meditation app you said. I always try to meditate and I cant. I draw when I'm feeling really anxious, and usually get lost in the drawing and that helps me separate from the thoughts. That's kind of meditative I've spent all day ruminating on that thing and whether again, my actions were moral or not. And the rest of the day trying to sort out that argument. Its It's been such a waste of a day, I hate my life sometimes:(
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@MJocd I totally get that. Sometimes I lose the whole day to my OCD and it just seems like a total waste. If drawing works well for you then I would absolutely try that! Sometimes I get frustrated with meditating too sometimes but I just keep on doing it. The more you practice the better you get at it. Btw, Insight Timer is one of the best apps out there but it costs $10/month. If you don’t feel like spending the money, there are some good meditations on YouTube for free. If you want a good meditation on YouTube let me know cause I have one bookmarked. But I think Insight Timer is worth the investment. It has a lot of variety and you can even take some 10-day courses for different types of anxiety and stuff.
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@ma345 I always have to figure out if I'm a bad person or not for my actions/ inactions. I'm so tired of it tbh :(
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