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Actually I don't think it's required or even all that helpful to work on reassuring yourself that it's OCD and therefore not real. Perhaps you can find it easier to settle on saying "yes, I have OCD, I recognise that I have the symptoms, but that doesn't mean that my fear can't be true". Because I think that's actually more accurate to reality. I have had OCD worries about things which ended up happening etc. The thing was never the problem, I could never control it in the first place, the problem was spending all my time and energy obsessing about it and trying to keep myself and everyone else perfectly safe/be certain that I'm a "good person" (perfectionism likes to claim that anyone who makes a mistake is a "bad person"), etc. OCD is a separate thing from the thing you're worried about, that's why OCD is always treated the same ways regardless of the content of the obsession. I'd really recommend instead of trying to tell yourself it's definitely OCD and therefore can't be real, just accept that you have the OCD symptoms, as I'm sure you're aware you do, and do the treatments for those symptoms (especially ERP). The actual thing which feels like a problem or worry or threat is something to address or solve only after treating your OCD about it and seeing what you're left with.
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I did try the ERP, in fact that’s what caused me to feel worse about a thought. I know it’s supposed to make you uncomfortable but instead of decreasing my anxiety it quickly increased it. Now I desperately want to give into my compulsion because I can’t take my mind off of it. Thank you so much!
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@giraffe522 Yep it's supposed to quickly increase your anxiety and make you desperately want to give in to your compulsion, that's perfect. Now your job isn't to take your mind off it/distract yourself or reassure yourself that it's OCD. It's to deliberately not do compulsions and ride out the anxiety until it's gone. So no ruminating or other mental compulsions either!
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@giraffe522 The decrease in anxiety doesn't happen until after you have let yourself feel the increased anxiety without doing anything about it. It's emotional processing instead of using compulsions to escape emotions. :)
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@Louw Okay that makes a lot of sense! Thank you so much! I will work on that!
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