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- 4y ago
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- 4y ago
What you’re looking for right now is reassurance, and it will just make your anxiety worse if you feed into it. I know how hard it is to break the reassurance addiction, I’m struggling with it right now myself
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- 4y ago
Yeah but I found him attractive I feel like I'm breaking inside
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- 4y ago
@Lina lost I totally understand, but the fear and anxiety will pass without reassurance and you will be ok, it’ll just take a little longer. If you fight the thought of it, the thought will get stronger and just be harder to fight off next time, so don’t fight the thought!
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- 4y ago
Hello Don’t follow the thought - my Husband is 2 years younger than me !!! I am Not reassuring you I am just letting you know the facts. Ocd will lie and bully you. The one thing that is reassurance is that OCD is a Nasty lying bully. How nice for you to have seen this boy on Instagram, Don’t Let the OCD monster lie to you!! I should imagine if you are anything like my daughter who too is Bullied By the monster, you too are a caring sensitive loving person that ocd is bullying !!! -‘just say so what and re focus, I know easier said than done but the bully will get tired of you let the though in - say so what and refocus and do something you enjoy.
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- 4y ago
Also not trying to give reassurance but the fact is you feeling attracted to someone 5 months younger than you is not what is classified as pedophilia. You are both in the same age range. If you were 30, per se, and this person was 15, then that falls into that category, but only 5 months is not a pedophile, especially if you are in the same age range. It is your OCD making you anxious most likely, you will be okay
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- 25w ago
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- 23w ago
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- 18w ago
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