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Sure. Life is about systems. Systems are either working for you or against you. In my case, my systems ie doing nothing about my OCD, made things worse. Today, I have a running list of any thought that causes me to suffer or ruminate. This is in my notes app on my phone. As I’m going about my life, if I notice something that bothers me, I jot it down there. Then between 8-9pm every night, I create a flash card for the newest suffering points and add them to my pile. Find a time that works for you. I always leave a couple extra flash cards so it can be a “living collection” meaning I add to it as life goes. It is now a lot of flash cards, but that’s okay because it’s allowing me to live a fuller life by attacking them all. For instance, let’s say I’m walking in public and see an attractive guy (I’m a straight man). And my OCD says omg maybe you like him. I notice myself ruminated for a few minutes. Did I like him? Did I think he’s attractive? Etc etc So, I pull out my phone and jot it down. Later, I’ll add it into my flash cards with the verbiage “I might (allowing for uncertainty) be gay.” I might also add, “others might think I’m gay.” What does this whole process do? It allows me to collect things that bother me throughout the day and then a time and place where I work on my exposures. Overtime, I’ll have the bulk of the things that bother my in my daily flash card collection that I read for 60 minutes daily. I imagine 3 months from now I’ll have 99% of my regularly ruminations written down and hopefully they’ll all be “boring” to me by then. As they say here, boring is good. Hope this helps.
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So interesting thank you
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Thanks for the tips on index card therapy! Pioneered by dr. Stephen Phillipson
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Can you explain what you do with the flash cards
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