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I understand what you mean. I’m the same. I can’t even go out sometimes, I feel anyone who looks at me is thinking something bad about me
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Hugs. The helpful answer would be to think “yes people are thinking the worst of me” while you’re out. I know it’s painful but you can do it.
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Thanks
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@reza same! I’m also Persian. I’m assuming you are based on your name. We’re sensitive people and when we feel betrayed, it hurts so bad our ancestors feel it. Lol. Pair that with OCD and it’s just— not ideal. And you know how you look in the moment of anger and hurt, and it makes the insecurity even worse. Mindfulness helps a lot to get out of your head in these times. Also reminding yourself that you don’t know what goes on in anyone else’s head. They could be worrying the same about you. The funny thing is that everyone’s got a story and most people think theirs is exposed but they can’t read others. Yours isn’t exposed. They may or may not be thinking bad things about you. After all, you’re thinking they are passing judgment! But you have to accept it. If they think something wrong about you it’s because they don’t know you :)
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I wonder if it would help to write all the thoughts you think people are thinking about you so you can fave them on paper away from people and be like “ok why would *anyone* think that?” Sometimes our own beliefs about the way people see us is our worst fear about ourselves- what we don’t want to be. Accepting that you may be that way or you may not be that way could help- because then you can at least realize your fears and work on becoming the person you do want to be.
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Face them^*
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I may try that. That’s a good idea ! The paranoia gets the best of me sometimes but I’m learning to handle it.... Reza is a popular name in Trinidad believe it or not. We pronounce it Reeza
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Yes. I take things too personally. Someone called me a loser when I asked a simple question. I was extremely upset even though he has no significance in my life
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Thanks so much ! That makes me feel better :) does it bother you a lot?
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I’m actually from Trinidad but yes my name is Persian :)
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It does bother me. I just tell myself i have to act like a bad betch and pretend i don’t care - then ruminate on it later until i come to the conclusions i sent above lol. I always get in my head about it. Its worse in groups and has definitely caused me to sit out of events. But I know the key to getting better is to expose myself to discomfort. So back to the start it goes- and I act like it doesn’t bother me! Lol
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I just hope with each attempt, getting to the good thoughts comes faster and I spend less time worrying. My goal is to be more present.
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And that’s so cool! How did you end up with a Persian name?
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Yes I am trying to let it not control me as well
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It gets better with practice for sure
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I have this issue where I can vividly imagine hurting others or animals or say things OUTLOUD that may be disruptive or disrespectful becauss I am overstimulated by soemthing someone is doing or saying. So, Over stimulation with people and animals and things they do can be a big part of it, Sometimes I will see soemthing that bothers me about someone and I just want to either fix it or hit them because they make me so overstimulated I just want to hit the problem. I never act on these things obviously but SOMETIMES it leaks out and I hit my hands together to calm the urges. I really don’t like imagining hurting others but when I get mad I obsess over what I would or could do to them or might or would’ve in a situation in the past, had it planned out differently. I keep thinking about it and thinking about it and then get upset with myself because I know it’s wrong to be thinking about hurting others and it worries me I may someday act on something impulsive and harm someone. Sometimes I cry about it because I never want to hurt people. Really I don’t. Most of these thoughts happen in milliseconds and I have a second part in my brain like a THOUGHT processor/auto corrective thinking reminding me I can’t do that because it’s morally wrong and I am too good of a person to do that and there is nothing to stress over.
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Everyone is frustrating me at work and I’m about to crash out😭!! Maybe it’s how I grew up and have been gaslit a lot but does anyone ever feel like whatever they do they are in the “wrong?” I don’t know …my coworker made me feel like that. What’s wrong to her might not be wrong to me and vise versa. I just wanna scream and throw hands lol. I don’t know if anyone else feels like this. And they wanna have this conversation in front of customers and then I look like the “bad guy” 🙄. So over it. Workplace is toxic asf and I’m trying to find a new job but it seems impossible these days . I feel like I’m not the best at conversations on the spot. That’s why I keep quiet so ion look dumb, but both coworkers came up to me and approach me. I feel like I try and smile and nobody really smiles back. Or when I say thank you and go to places like ulta, all the girls are bitchy. It makes me think am I not smiling enough? Am I doing something wrong? Etc. Maybe it just the people I’m around . I just feel nothing but anger and I’m trying to calm down but I really just wanna go off
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I’m constantly finding myself getting irritated easily and sometimes it even confuses me because I was happy and fine two seconds ago. Like I feel emotionally unstable. I also randomly will get sentimental or sad and I just start crying. Is this just me??
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