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Hey Jay, that sounds really tough thing to be handling. I'm sorry to hear that your parents aren't understanding. People are selfish and it sucks. Don't off yourself because that's not the solution I know you have people that love you and you are not a burden man.
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Thank you.
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Idk how old you are Jay, but I think you should just hop out of the nest and don't worry about what they say or anyone for that matter. Just like u said, they dont understand so theyre reaction is based off misunderstandings and false perspectives. Just get the help that you already know you need no matter what for yourself dawg. You don't really want to off yourself. That's why you're trying to better your situation literally within this app. I think what you really want to do is just get better so do it, don't mind any others mind. The complaining all comes from something they can't comprehend like I said. If you guys traded shoes is the only way your family would be able to get a glimpse of your situation and only then would their reaction towards you change. Most likely coming from a place of love believe it or not whatever they all say to you. But don't make the same mistake as many others and let that stop you like it does coubtless others. Get your help ya need first however u gotta. Only then you can help others once you've done helped yourself. Simply put, "fuck everything and every thought and commit to therapy. Best of luck my guy!
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I’m 21, but just hopping out of the nest isn’t really an option right now. I can’t drive, and it’s mostly because my parents don’t take me out to practice. They say that I’m bad at it and don’t trust me on the streets, but the reason I’m so bad at is because I don’t really have any experience. I took a course over 2 years ago and my instructor said I was great but my parents still don’t trust me, and yet they’re always bitching at me to get my lisence. And since I don’t have a lisence i can’t really get a job because my parents can’t take me to and forth all the time. But they’re also always bitching at me to get a job, too. I wanna work, I hate doing nothing all day, but my parents constantly find ways to hold me back and yet put all of the blame of it on me and it makes my anxiety and mental health so much worse, and they also are the types to tell me to just ‘get over it’. It feels like gaslighting in a way, or something like that. But I really appreciate your comment anyway, thank you.
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