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- 5y
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- 5y
I'm so sorry, this is so hard for you all. The one thing that comes to mind is "Ethan Smith", he is ambassadeur for the IOCDF, if you search for his keynote speech at you tube, it's amazing, he had severe OCD and his parents had to act in the tough love way...You can reach him at justethan@iocdf.org or ethocd@gmail.com He always answers and have good advices to give, maybe some inspiration for you and your son.
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- 5y
Unfortunately, there’s not much you can do to force someone to begin treatment. There’s an abundance of resources out there, including this app, which make treatment accessible and affordable. I want to be clear that I think it’s perfectly reasonable to have boundaries in your life to ensure your own well-being. I’d just like to ask, how would you feel if you’d learned a friend had banned their child from their home for having diabetes? Or if they were struggling with autism? Because we know OCD is a disorder at the level of the brain, of which the sufferer does not have full agency or control over it. You, of course, are under no obligation to do anything you don’t want to do. I also understand the personal frustration of having a loved one suffering from OCD.
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Banning him probably isn’t the right solution but the frustration of having a family member with ocd is real. Ocd is debilitating for the sufferer- like last night I couldn’t make dinner because I was stuck in a loop for hours on end. It’s not his fault. I do hope he takes a step towards getting treatment.
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- 5y
I’m sorry that you all are going through this. Before I respond, could you elaborate a little more on begging him to do something? What have you guys tried?
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What have you tried with your son? Have you told him about ERP or other treatment or given him resources?
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Thanks for the suggestions- we have tried getting him to therapy- tried home therapy where he counselors come to the home weekly only to have them “give up” as he will not even write up goal for his life. I suggested he download this app but he would not do it.
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- 24w
My son has Pure O religious/scrupulosity with GAD and Bipolar. My son was diagnosed with Pure O religious OCD two years ago. He has to complete a task so that God doesn’t send him to hell if he doesn’t do it. These tasks are dangerous like doing multiple back flips on concrete, or jumping off balconies three times, doing MMA slams on his back three times. The thoughts are telling him if he doesn’t do this he will go to hell. Or he is so worried about blaspheming the holy spirt and loose his salvation. He knows this is his OCD. He knows the scripture and that God is one of peace and love. Been there and done that on quoting scripture and reminding him he is saved. I can see the torture he is going through and it is painful to watch. He also needs to be stuck next to me at all times cuz it makes him feel safe. This is impeding on my life as I feel I have a toddler again, he is 24 and a former 4 star football player. He wants this to stop, he is in therapy and working on it. He was free from these thoughts from November 2023 till April 2025. He is dealing with narcissistic trauma with his father and this triggers the OCD. My question is what can I do to support and help him through these episodes and not agitate him and to help him heal?
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- 22w
Hi everyone, I'm in a bit of a difficult situation and I wanted to ask for some advice. I recently finished my studies and I am living from my savings while I look for a job. However this process has turned out to be a lot more difficult and tedious than I expected. I suspect I have OCD as I relate to a lot of the experiences described here, in particular those corresponding to pure OCD. I have continuous intrusive thoughts about how what I'm currently doing is not enough, I constantly need to reassured that what I'm doing is right, with some magical thinking and concerns about my relationship sprinkled in. These intrusive thoughts have made it very difficult to make any significant progress in looking for something. Added to this I'm not even sure I have OCD as I don't have the money to afford therapy right now (my mind keeps telling me that it's silly to write this message because there's no way I have OCD). I live in Switzerland so as far as I understand my insurance won't cover sessions with NOCD. In conclusion I'm a bit stuck, therapy would help with finding a job but I need a job to get therapy. If any of you have had any similar experience and have some piece of advice it would be very welcome.
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- 20w
So thankful to have found this app 😭 my 15 year old is struggling with what is unofficially diagnosed OCD (counselor is starting the process to diagnose but she fits SO much of what we’re reading and she’s at least 4th generation OCD’r). We are in a bad spiral right now with her, especially centered around sleep and it just feels so hard. Just wanted to say thank you for helping me not feel alone.
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