(Not OCD) - All of the guys in my friendship group have gone off to another group of girls. These other girls are prettier and more fun and I’m honestly very jealous of them! But overall I’m feeling quite defeated and insecure and upset. I feel like we’re just not good enough and we can’t compete. And idk what to do anymore. These are meant to be the best years of my life yet I’m having no fun.

Anonymous

Date posted: 5y

I used to feel the same way as you. I would honestly feel so jealous of my friends cause they would get the pretty and cute girls while I just sat and got nothing. But what I can promise you, is that it will all be better. You shouldn’t be focusing on others. You should be focusing on your future, what kind of job your going to have, how much more successful your going to be. Focus on yourself and the future. Don’t focus on the past.

garden

Date posted: 5y

Thank you!! Love this

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Date posted: 5y

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garden

Date posted: 5y

Thank you! I think the hardest part though is the fact that these prettier girls also care a lot for eachother. I’d love for them to just be mean and evil... but they’re not. They’re decent people with good personalities. I appreciate what you’ve said so much though. You’re right! I do need to work on self love :)

garden

Date posted: 5y

@serenity Thanks. You’re right! I would form a friendship with them but we kinda were close and now we’re not. Nothing too deep, but it’d be strange of me to go back :)

pureolife

Date posted: 5y

New boys will come along and think you’re the cool girls. We all feel rejected sometimes. And that’s okay. Feel that feeling for awhile and be sad about it. It will pass when you’ve processed this loss.

garden

Date posted: 5y

Ty🥺

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