Anonymous
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NT24NT24
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I’m in a similar situation. I don’t know if mine is considered toxic it’s hard to tell because he didn’t intend to hurt me and such but he didn’t realize how things affected me. I want to call him too so badly but I know deep down as much as I miss him it won’t help. Try to write things that will help you grow as a person, talk to friends
AnonymousAnonymous
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He was very controlling and selfish . He made fun of my ocd towards the end of the relationship . It was just a very intense relationship and he never took ownership .
AnonymousAnonymous
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This person wasn’t all bad . But he was very controlling , selfish , etc . Towards the end he started making fun of my OCD and I could not take it anymore . I do miss him . But I only miss certain parts of him . I need to remember the negative side of him. I’m just feeling so sad
AnonymouslyAnonymously
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hang in there a best friend of 8 years and i dont speak anymore because of how bad it got in the end its like after the things she said to me i cant go back to the way it was before, but i miss the good parts every day its okay to miss someone even if they didnt treat you right all the time but its good to set limits and boundaries and know your worth feel good about taking those steps
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Anonymously Thank you . He just made me feel so guilty for ending it and that haunts me . Thank you for the reply . I appreciate it
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@Anonymously Im in same situation with my bestfriend, for 2 weeks i cant stop thinking about my friend. Keep thinking all of the worst things and all of that
AnonymousAnonymous
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@OCD-PROOF I understand . I’m just fighting the compulsion to call . If I call , I am back to square 1. He had good qualities but he was very selfish, controlling and delusional at times . I need to remind myself of the bad and for some reason my brain won’t allow me to remember all the horrible fights we had . I’m just feeling so sad right now
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@Anonymous Same i wanted to reach out and call my friend or text him to hang out but no point it's the guilt and compulsion making me want to after i do feed into this compulsion it will make it worst
AnonymousAnonymous
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@OCD-PROOF You are right. It will make it worse .
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@Anonymous I wasnt feeling this bad months ago so why now? Makes no sense
AnonymousAnonymous
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Maybe something triggered it ? It’s hard for me to say this to myself but just know this feeling is temporary. In the future, you may see things a lot more clearer . I dated this guy at we work together . I got a temporary transfer . My whole life has been flipped . But I just have to say to myself “ I will get better”
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I don't remember what triggered it exactly because it was two weeks ago. The 3rd month of quarantine hit and all of sudden I got HOCD, didn't know it was ocd at that time, i was panicking, i was scared and i told my friend about these thoughts and im sure he was weirded out entirely, i also told him, is there a problem between us and how I was a little bit jealous when we worked together and the girl coworkers liked him more than me. So he probably thinks im fake. I do know this is temporary for me and you but this slow burning pain is just too much
AnonymousAnonymous
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I’m so sorry . So you guys work together ? Some people do not fully understand psychology or ocd . This whole pandemic changed a lot of people and their thought process .
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