- Username
- maying
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I have HOCD. The only thing that I recommend you is to ignored that thoughts. If I have thoughts about playing hockey that means I'm a hockey player? Of course no, the same is for Hocd. Just say that thoughts are only that, thoughts.
They can feel very real. That's because your fear basically makes them stronger.
They will feel like they where true. If you fight em, you will make them stronger
It's okay, these thoughts, feelings, and urges mean nothing. They are just things being projected from your mind but they have no basis. You have 70 million thoughts a day that are random, these thoughts you're having are just as random as the other ones, it's just you're fixating on these because they scare you. Do some breathing exercises to calm yourself down. Do something that relaxes you and once you're calm, keep reminding yourself, "thoughts are just thoughts."
You're right
Thank you so much really appreciate this!! Do you find the thoughts feel sooo real tho :(
Sometimes ignoring them can make them worse. It just depends on how scared you are. Like when I have spells of POCD I'm able to ignore the thoughts because that fear isn't as strong. But my ROCD is my biggest fear at the moment. When I ignore those thoughts they get worse. I try to focus on the present moment and remember to do some deep breathing. I've also been using the therapy function on this app, it's been very helpful.
Thanks guys!! Really appreciate your advice, makes me feel better
And by doing this will it go away? :/ I hope so x
Anyone with hocd ever had the urge to kiss their female friends but then freak out? Like the hocd is making feel like id enjoy it. But i know deep down (even though the feeling is murky rn because of the hocd) that i want a husbamd/bf one day. It keeps bringing up the fact that when i was a kid id watch cartoons and see the female characters and think they were attractive. But never where i wanted to be with them ya know? This is really unhinging me. I just want to like guys again normally ?
Hocd is making me say stuff i dont want to ? 😞
Can someone explain to me what urges are with ocd or what they feel like
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