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Hiii, don’t feel sorry for wanting to talk about something not ocd related ! Unfortunately I don’t have any tips but I go through the same thing. I get so uncomfortable around a big group of people and I feel like everyone is just staring at me when really I know they’re not. I would most likely would continue to suggest to my therapist that it’s most likely social anxiety. I hope you’re able to find the help you’re looking for ! You got this !!
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Hi! Thank you so much for taking the time to reply! That is okay, thank you for reading my long paragraph! I'm glad you know you're not alone. I can definitely relate as well, you just feel like you have eyes on you 24/7 and it's hard to think otherwise, people have been telling me that most people nowadays are very self observed and i do agree that some people don't care about others and what they do but we also live in a judgmental society, not everyone is judgemental but alot of people will always find ways to judge people for fun which is very sad : ( I'm trying to change my mindset but i haven't gotten around to making it actually happen. Thank you so much, I really appreciate it!! I hope the best for you and I'm always here if you ever need to talk!! Keep fighting!
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- 4y ago
I have social anxiety and I work in a very busy retail store. They way that helps me is to always focus on what I can do for a person and how I can help them and make them happy, it makes me feel confident and gives me energy to go on helping the next person it is a skill I would say but it has helped me focus on who I am aka a great person with talents and a lot to offer and not the mystery of what they might think of me. It gives me a feeling of power and control in social settings. It’s harder is social situations because I can’t focus on helping people so I like to focus on things I like and am happy about and share those with others. Social anxiety is so hard but I’m cheering you on :) if that is what you have
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Hi! Thank you for taking the time to respond! I'm glad that you found things that help you with your social anxiety. Thank you for the tips, I'll try my best to do that and see if it helps me cope! I really appreciate this and I hope the best for you!! You've got this !!
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