Hey uhhhh I feel safer in this community so ima tell y’all here. Any help or advice is very appreciated♥️. And I’m in need of help the most here... I feel numb and lost the past two day. I haven’t been able to be myself and if I continue to let myself sad ima fall into depression. No one in real life understands my situation. Here’s what happened. If you understand the Damelio Family’s situation on tik tok you’ll understand. So someone’s personal chef made a girl her food but it turned out to be a snail, which made the girl vomit. But people are saying she vomited dramatically and she was ungrateful for the food. My comment was controversial I guess. I basically commented on a video which said “It’s not dramatic it’s ✨Ungrateful ✨” and my phones been blowing up of people telling me to “grow up” “your a kid your stupid” “by what you commented we can tell your uneducated” and it was hard to focus in school and I feel sad, my fear is that ima fall into depression from this. But hate is normal for social media influencers, but for me this is the first... I’m 15

Waittt really????? You know about the situation? I thought I’ve have to explain

@Peridottttt I haven’t seen the video but I understand what you have said in your comment

@hanajade I guess I do feel bad and could’ve worded nicer. But I just forgot how to be happy, when I was walking to the doctors today all I could’ve think about was the hate and everytime I open my phone it’s just filled with hate. I’m still learning and growing but I couldn’t even focus in school cause the comments keep coming in during class. Omg it’s so scary being a influencers.

@hanajade I started even acting rude to my family members 😭

@Peridottttt What you said was correct because who wants to eat a snail but you are smart and educated. So try and ignore the comments or delete the post or unfollow the person.

@hanajade Ummmm oh shit....... I actually said the opposite of what you said. Maybe you didn’t read it right but I wrote she was ungrateful because she spat the snail out. And people are are saying to me to go eat it. I said “it’s part of my culture so I do eat it” I respect your opinion tho

@Peridottttt Ok I’m so sorry I didn’t realise that you eat snails as part of your culture. She definitely was ungrateful for spitting out the snail as she should be appreciative of having some food as there are people who don’t have anything to eat at all.

@hanajade Well my problem was that she could’ve spit it politely instead of making a big scene like at least respect it. Idk people are getting the wrong message that’s why their calling me names.

@Peridottttt Yes that is true. She should have spat in a tissue that was it is more polite and respectful. It’s really rude that they are calling you names they shouldn’t have done that. I totally understand what you were trying to say and is was correct.

Yes but what about the comments who are bit more mean and how do deal with the hate even tho my comment did come off as rude

@Peridottttt if you feel that it came off rude, then you can take what you learned in this situation & apply to future ones. as for the mean comments - pay no mind to them. they aren’t you, they don’t know you. just because you have a different opinion doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. if the comments begin to wear on you, you could take a break from the app. :)

@nina Yeah I was feeling numb and couldn’t focus on school it’s my first time getting bashed with hate but some people I’ve resolved the issue and became cool. It’s easier than said to ignore them it’s hard

@Peridottttt i understand. when something similar happened to me for the first time, i kept thinking of how i could clear the air with people, what i could do to lessen the harsh words. it’s easier said than done for sure. just try your best 🦋 and be kind to yourself in this. it may be scary or off-putting, but you’re learning more about what’s important to you & that your opinions matter 🌿

Ayeee thank you but my question maybe my comment seemed rude that’s why the reaction was mixed up and rude was it my fault?

Thank you for saying I have a wonderful life ahead of me but some people told me that’s a lie because there will be dark times so saying that isn’t a guarantee 😕

@Peridottttt So, idk the situation - so I'm not going to put an opinion on it. Honestly before I comment my opinion on anything online, I ask myself if someone said this to me - would I get upset? If my answer is idk or yes, then I don't post it. If it's no - then I post it. Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. Lastly - life isn't going to ever be trouble free. You will face some tough times. Look at life as a painting though. Up close it's just a bunch of light colors mixed with some dark. As you take a step back though - it becomes this beautiful picture. Bottom line - you cannot have the brights spots without some dark - it wouldn't be a painting. The dark spots help make you stronger and appreciate the lighter portions. Life will be amazing even though you have struggles. It is all about your mindset.

@kmecroz Yes and when I’m sad I write peoms and hopefully in the future I can publish it and be known for my work to help others

@Peridottttt Yes ma'am! I have harm OCD and want to blog and share my experiences with others. You will make waves dear and it will be wonderful! Continue to let your light shine!

@kmecroz Omg thank you I’ve been lacking love these past days and talking to you brought back positivity

@Peridottttt Girl - anytime. Don't let OCD keep you from being the best you. Just remind yourself you are a warrior and will share this with everyone. Think of all the people you will help. Focus on that. If you starve OCD of its nutrition- it won't be able to grow. Hugs from Ohio!!!

@kmecroz Here in Cali 💙

@kmecroz Oh yeah this was the peom I wrote Every step that you walk on To every road you lead on The light will be one step behind To shine when darkness enters your life Every path you cross through Is every hope that you made true It was meant for you

@Peridottttt I love this!!!!! So true and so beautiful! 😍😍

@kmecroz Thank you I will continue to work on my craft and help others because when I die I was to be know for the life I lived