Can I talk to someone on here about a situation? I'm willing to give advice or listen but my brain is on loop

It's kind of a long story... but I'm stressed about not having closure from a "sitationship" and I tried not to care but during these lonely times it's wasting me alive. We just stopped talking no explanation after me deciding I haven't been treated right even tho they aren't a bad person... I was scared to have the talk because I shut down twice and didn't want it to seem to rushy but now we are both in each others friend group and I don't know how to confront the situation after no contact on both ends

@Dess Sorry I know it doesn't seem like a big deal and it's probably not but half of my friends are like cut that shit off and the other part of me is taking it so hard

@Dess Have you tried calling your partner and try to resolve the situation. Does your partner know that you have ocd and can cause you to feel overwhelmed? Did you tell your partner that you have been treated right? People need to be more patient and to help us through ocd.

I'm struggling with facing it or just opting out. I'm not sure what to do because I am so good at communicating and when a partner is not it makes me feel stupid and I hate looking dumb :/

@Dess People also tell me to just act like nothing but that's really hard for me especially if I'm into a person. Part of me just wants to be straight up willing to risk it all and be rejected and hurt. I don't think I could just stop talking to them because I know people play victim often then I'll look like the bad guy

@Dess Do you have his phone number that you can use to talk to him? Maybe a break would be good as you can focus on yourself and do the things that you love. If someone isn’t treating you the way you would like to be treated then a break is a good idea. At the end of the day it’s your choice. There is still so many people out there if you want to date in the future.

@Dess I’m sorry to hear that people tell you to act like nothing. You are human you deserve to feel different emotions and to stand up for yourself if someone isn’t treating you like you would like to be treated.

@hanajade No no it's okay that they say that they mean "act like a boss bitch and that you don't care! You deserve better. Stop talking to him and he'll come running back and when he does you will have moved on" type deal haha. To be strong and move on it's almost supportive but I don't think that's how I roll... Yeah we haven't talk in almost a week and I thought I could handle the break but now I'm just overthinking (as us with ocd do 🤣) but I do have his number! I just don't know how to reach out or if I even should? I know it's ultimately up to me but man I've been hurt in the past and the things he said to me were just ugh like I knew this would break me but I felt so good while we hung out just there was a lot of mixed signals so it wasn't fair and I try to justify it :/

@Dess At the end of the day it’s your choice. If there is more cons than pros then don’t call him. You might end up finding someone in the future who is able to understand what you are going through. Hope this helps. Just think about it and go from there.

@hanajade You're amazing for answering and supporting me. Thank you so so much

@Dess That’s ok. We are all here to help you.