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Hey, it's okay, you may feel truly alone now, but instead of focusing on that, maybe focus in the relief you feel now that you don't have that toxic figure in your life. It's hard to let go of friends, especially those that you've have for so long, but we let go of people for a reason. Soon you'll find people that will truly connect with you, now that you have the opportunity to spread your wings and make new friends that are good for you. It might seem impossible now since the pandemic, but try to stay positive. I'm a random stranger, and I'm rooting for you!! You'll find good people in your life, I promise you, please don't give up.
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I needed this thank u!!! I didn’t want to ask for reassurance but I literally don’t have anyone to talk to. I’m trying to stay positive I just wish I had a support system. I’m glad I remembered I have this app
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@Lin__ You'll always find people to support you here, please never hesitate to ask for some :)
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Hey, I am here for you and I'll be your friend, I've been too friendless for few years before so I know how are you feeling. Please let me know if you want to talk to me. And remember that, you are not alone.
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We are all here for you during this tough time. I can be your friend if you want.
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Thank you I really appreciate it 🥺
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You should join random discord servers that have VCs and you might have a blast there. I sometimes drop in a call and make bits with randoms. I would do bits to play as a show host or a horrible therapist, and a lot of people would have a laugh at the dumb comedy we made together. I would just suggest going wild since you are open to new friends. Join servers, calls, groups, etc. join communities that fit you. ( this is just my idea. If it’s bad, then I am sorry)
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I just got broken up with 13 days ago after 5 months super unexpectedly for no reason other then he needs to work on himself. That night i was really alone because my parents told me he was a good influence on me and my friends weren’t so i had no one. I added this guy on Snapchat that same night and we’ve texted and called every night since. We met 3 days ago and it went really good. We were both nervous but both talked about the next one and how we both had fun. Last night he went to bed without even a goodnight or any talking that whole day but apologized and said goodmorning this morning. Then tonight he randomly sends a paragraph saying he doesn’t think it’s going to work. When i asked why he said “Idk our personalities are just a bit different and idk if I’m really ready to be in a relationship”. It makes sense i guess but I’m really struggling with the fact that my last relationship said that exact same thing and i can’t help but think there has to be something wrong with me. I never cheated or did anything that could’ve upset either of them. I’m 17 and i really feel like i should just stop trying for a relationship but no one is giving me any kind of advice so I’ve just been over thinking all of it. Any past relationship I’ve gotten over by meeting someone new but I don’t know how to “work on myself”. I really think I have a fear of being alone. Please help!
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I don’t know what to do anymore I made a friend recently in college and was texting her the other night and she mentioned she was doing her nails and I said nice and asked her if I could see. Because I was curious about what she did to them this time around and since then she has not responded to me I apologized to her saying I’m sorry if it bothered her but still nothing. Some of my friends just don’t answer me anymore I feel like I’m a burden of the ones who do still talk me I’m so done with it all. I’m tired of trying to find love as well I feel nothing to it anymore it’s only left me with disappointment and sadness I feel like I’m an unlovable husk of a person and that I would only ever be a bother I cannot fathom the idea of someone loving ME I just can’t I feel like it’s impossible I feel like everything about me bothers people to the point where I think is it even something I should try to achieve anymore. I should honestly block myself from trying to make new friends and relationships I’m so so tired of it. I feel unappreciated and annoyed that I am the one that has to try to keep up any sort of relationship because if I don’t reach out they never will reach out to me the reason I know this is because it’s been proven time after time since middle school that I am nothing to these people and I might as well no longer try. I don’t know what to do anymore I feel like I’m going to be all alone for the rest of my life I’m just so lonely now.
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