Anna:)
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Anna:)Anna:)
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I feel like ur guys saying maybe he is a bad personššš
Anna:)Anna:)
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Is he Iām confused
SunflowerSunflower
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Sorry for not answer before
SunflowerSunflower
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But you are struggling thinking if your boyfriend is good or bad, I see he is good, just he make a mistake, so the answer her is accept uncertainty, maybe he is good maybe he is not.
Anna:)Anna:)
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Yeah, I have a therapy appointment today and heās going to join. Because heās also upset too that I called him a rapist watch yeah from my part that was mean of me to do.
Anna:)Anna:)
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And itās okay donāt worry about it:)
AnonymousAnonymous
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Whatās up
Anna:)Anna:)
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So basically there were times That I felt like My boyfriend was calling me fat and stuff, when he actaully wasnāt I am just senestice. Well yesterday weāre watching the Jersey shore and I looked down at my stomach because were eating like chocolate chip cookies, then I donāt know My boyfriend was just like poking out my stomach and he was laughing but he said he wasnāt laughing at my stomach he was just messing around with me. So then he said like let me prove to you that I love your body so heās like let me see your body(not forcing though) so he took my leggings I said no but it wasnāt stern or anything it was kind of like a whetever No, and then I got up and let them take my shirt off. And then after tht I felt uncomfortable and my brian is like āomg is this rapeā and stuff like tht. And cried and got upset because he said he didnāt mean to hurt me was trying to prove a point but in my head I donāt know which turned into this like thing. And then I told him maybe he was a rapist and he got really upset with that which now I regret saying tht too him.
Anna:)Anna:)
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@Bryan ?????
Anna:)Anna:)
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@Bryan What does tht mean?
Anna:)Anna:)
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@Bryan No he knows that we talked about it yesterday, like I guess we were both in the wrong because I let them take my shirt off and stuff itās not like I said no donāt touch me.
SunflowerSunflower
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@Anna:) But you seem uncomfortable, that's the point of consent, so maybe you can tell him that when he sees you uncomfortable, he should stop. Even if you say no.
Anna:)Anna:)
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@Bryan No, we definitely both are in the wrong and I shouldnāt have called him a rapist because he didnāt force me to do anything. I did tell him I felt uncomfortable and he apologized. I guess itās because I always call my cell fat and he just wanted me to like maybe shut up or just to prove that he really loves my body, so he couldāve done it in like a different way I guess in his head he thought differently. Weāre both a bit hurt because I felt a little weird after I did that and heās hurt because I called him a rapist. On top of that weāre gonna be dating for almost 2 years in February. If you wanted to hurt me by now I think I know he would because he such a great person heās been there through thick and thin while other people wouldāve left me a long time ago.
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@Cherry Even if you didn't say no *
Anna:)Anna:)
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@Cherry Yeah no I told him that, now I feel like heās getting a bit too anxious like he literally asked me can I touch you and all this stuff now
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SunflowerSunflower
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I think that he did it in a good way, but if he sees you are uncomfortable he should stop, so maybe he didn't realize about that, that doesn't make him a bad person, you can just tell him about it and if you regret saying what you tell him, we'll say sorry, is hard but it's worth it! š
Anna:)Anna:)
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In my mind itās like āomg maybe he is a bad personā
Anna:)Anna:)
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And he always respected me and never hurts me, I guess tht day idk I didnāt feel well as it was so idk I might if Took the whole thing out of proportion
Anna:)Anna:)
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Cuz he isnt
Anna:)Anna:)
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Iām like confused!
Anna:)Anna:)
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Itās making feel like crap, Because everyone else I talk to said he didnāt mean it in that way and everyone loves my boyfriend cause heās so nice
Anna:)Anna:)
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I would also like to mention in the past and even now if I didnāt want to have sex he would be fine with that he never forced upon me .
Anna:)Anna:)
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Cause I donāt think he meant it in. A bad way, But I can tell itās also my OCD because itās with me all day and I just have anxiety
SunflowerSunflower
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Exactly, I think he is a good boyfriend, just explain to him what is actually consent, he just commit a mistake, we are humannnnnn
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