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It nicht also be important to know your limit. You are responsible for what you have control over whereas your friend has to go through it, no matter how much you want to soften his fall. So know, that this is not your obligation, to solely be there for your friend. Being friends is beautiful though. Also don't be to comfortable if this inspires you to set new boundaries for yourself. Trigger yourself and endure it. You can't escape your obsessions. They're always where the rest if you is. But we all here need to confront ourselves with our shameful, violent, loveless, aggressive thoughts.
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Nicht=might
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Thank you ♥️♥️
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You are welcome ☺
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i’m going through a really bad breakup right now too. But just know that you are being the BEST friend you can to her and you should never apologize for caring for yourself. You need to make sure you are in the best way before you can help someone else and if it’s to hard then don’t feel bad for stopping! you helped her as much as possible and that’s all that matters, your mental health comes first!
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That’s my biggest struggle right now. You’re not alone.
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Ok guys this is so embarassing. I absolutely hate this. But pretty much I’ve been going through a breakup and now I’m getting intrusive thoughts/memories about us being physically intimate and cringing about it. I’m not sure why I’m cringing because it’s a normal part of a relationship, and he’s the first person I’ve ever been intimate like that with. I guess I’m embarrassed. I don’t know what I looked like and I’m embarassed I didn’t look perfect and that’s apart of why he broke up with me. I don’t know why my brain is doing this. I hate this
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Hi - I’ve made a series of posts about my situation over the past few weeks. My bf asked to take a break from our relationship through text the first week of April. We haven’t spoken since. There’s a lot of outward details to this but I’ll try to keep it as simple as possible. My ocd is telling me the worst of the worst. He left me with full uncertainty because he didn’t give me a reason, and his decision felt like it happened overnight and I’m still so confused. He’s never been in a relationship as serious as this before. I’m incredibly hurt and angry, and my emotions get worse on Saturday and Friday nights because that’s when his frat parties happen. I do ERP phrases but my stomach hurts and it’s churning so bad. I deactivated/deleted social media apps for now because it’s too much. I just wish this physical feeling would stop. Does anyone have tips?
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- OCD Conqueror
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Recently my ocd keeps asking me if I love my boyfriend enough and that if I don’t love him enough I should breakup with him. It’s really bothering me and idk what to do about it. Sitting in the uncertainty is too much and I fear sitting with it too long I’m just gonna crack and give in to a compulsion.
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