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I absolutely agree with you. I actually looked into this on my own time and there is a website ran by an OCD specialist who writes down the different approaches for ERP and tells people that they should find what works from them. It’s really interesting. He actually takes time to list pros and cons of each method and which method would be best for whatever type of OCD you have. I’ve done what you did which was try to confirm the thoughts and I also went into a deep depression. I now try to quickly acknowledge and let the thoughts go without doing anything to them. Like “yep that’s a thought” and move on. I’ve done a lot better and no big depressive moments. It does really take some time to figure out what works for you and you shouldn’t be afraid to tell your therapist or whoever that the method they initially recommended to you is not working very well and that you would like to try another.
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Hi, thanks for the reply, this was interesting to read it's nice that someone relates. I've also taken on the same approach as you and it's definitely working better. Believing intrusive thoughts can seem to lead into a negative loop that makes fear come true for some people, and i think the understanding of this very fact can be helpful for such people. Also, if you don't mind can you share the website with me? It sounds very positive and i'd be interested in checking it out :)
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@m666 It took a bit but I found the website. https://www.sheppardpratt.org/news-views/story/how-to-respond-to-unwanted-obsessive-thoughts/
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@stop. Thanks, much appreciated :)
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I wanted to add an (made-up) example. Let's say a girl loves her dog dearly, but her intrusive thoughts tell her that she doesn't. If she believes them, she might panic, feel overwhelmed and get depressed. This in turn might her to actually feel less love for the dog, as anxiety and depression take up so much mental energy. It kinda becomes a self-fulfilling prophercy.
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