- Username
- KellyBelly
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I’m so sorry you’re going through that. A real man should never treat a woman that way:( Have you told anybody?
Sorry for what you’re experiencing. I also have contamination OCD. I had "friends", when my OCD was bad, who would poke fun at me because of my OCD. Very painful and embarrassing. My family didn’t understand, either. Fortunately, I found other friends in the ensuing years and an understanding wife. I hope you find the same, eventually. Take care.
I have it seems like all my family and friends turned their backs on me. I guess I wore everyone with my problems. I know it is not easy to deal with a family memeber with contamination ocd but he has no compassion and says the most hateful things. I am all alone. All those who said that they would stand by me seem to ignore me now. How do I go on? I want to get better for my son but have no family or friend emotional support.
Im so sorry, i know what that’s like. My family always brushes it under the rug. Have you tried therapy??
He says that no other man would put up with what he does. :( all I am guilty of is being overprotective of germs and fear for my familu
Thank you.
I know I have been trying to start therapy but just moved and haven't been able to start until we get settled so I can start and focus on therapy. (Been through 4 therapist to no avail) My husband is emotionally abusive and does and says means things to trigger my contamination OCD. I just don't know where to turn in the meantime before therapy starts. It is not something suitable to call 911 over, but with someone who had severe contamination ocd it is very hard to deal with in the moment and I have nobody to turn to or talk towhen my husband does what he does to make me feel worse. On top of that he tells me things like "go to sleep and not wake up again" I am trying to heal myself of ocd, but can't into therapy as soon as a I want given our moving circumstance. I just needed to reach out to someone who is not telling me that he wishes I would die becauze he cant handle my ocd.
My compulsion is seeking reassurance. I go to my husband about every single worry (usually about contamination). It’s ruining my marriage, but I’m struggling so much with this and as hard as I try, I keep running my worries by him. It’s so hard on him and I want to stop this. Can anyone relate / help? Thanks in advance
Does anyone have any advice for someone with contamination OCD that is living with a partner without OCD? (Especially given that that partner intentionally or unintentionally sometimes /often says things that make me feel worse/down). I could really use any advice anyone has right now. Things are starting to feel hopeless and I don’t know whether it makes sense to continue with the relationship or if that’s just a temporary feeling in light of what I’m going through. I just feel so alone and misunderstood.
Is there anyone out there who suffers from probably the worst kind of ocd, the so called emotional or thought contamination ocd? I have lost basically almost all one can lose in life because of it. It almost ruined my life. I've been seeing a psychiatrists and a clinical psychologist, but none of them have much knowledge of ocd in general , and have never Heard of my type of ocd. I get no support whatsoever. I am all alone fighting Ocd, Well with the help of an AD, that helps somewhat, but has such side effects that I can hardly function anymore. Without it, I would have killed myself sooner or later. Exposure Response prevention therapy is not for me. I would rather commit suicide. I dont know how to fight it. Is there anyone outthere who knows what I am talking about? Is there Anyone who has actually found a way to wink the war with ocd? I only have a husband. Nobody Else. He's been through hell with me. How do I help him understand what I am going through and why and what ocd is. I dont want ocd Take him away too. I've lost everybody Else due to ocd. I feel so much love and compassion for each and everyone of you suffering with ocd. I wish I could hug you all. I Feel So hopeless from time to time and I wish I had someone who understands to hug me. My hubby is far away for the time being on account of his job. Well, He would hug me, but still, after 18 years together, he does not understand it. My Best wishes to All of you. Love.
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