Kasey
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- 4y
OCD suck my d*ckOCD suck my ...
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- 4y
First explain to her that it’s not her and it’s your ocd and you actually do love her. Explain the symptoms of ocd and how it’s not just cleaning and she should understand. It’s better to tell your loved one about this because if you guys end up staying with eachother forever, during adulthood it could get worse and you need someone to be there for you and understand. If they don’t understand then they aren’t the one. If they truly loved you, they will do anything for you and not think any different of you. Sending you all my love ❤️
KaseyKasey
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- 4y
thanks from the bottom of my heart. it’s people like you who make the world a kinder place. (guess what outcome your advice had ! ❤️❤️
OCD suck my d*ckOCD suck my ...
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- 4y
@Kasey Thank you that’s really made me day ❤️
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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- 4y
It’s so hard to expect someone to understand ocd bc it’s so complex and difficult to understand. And the sad part is they can rightfully choose to leave because of it...
IowaOCDIowaOCD
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- 4y
The right person will stay with you through anything. In my first marriage my wife at the time didn’t understand and she genuinely made me feel worse. I divorced and met the right person. She supports my OCD 100%. Even when im at my worst or talk about insane things shes there for me. If someone leaves because of your OCD then it wasnt meant to be
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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I’m so glad you found a better person to understand. I’m so terrified of being alone forever. My ex wants to get back together and I want to as well but I think once I tell him I got diagnosed he won’t want to be with me
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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What’s your theme
IowaOCDIowaOCD
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- 4y
POCD so I talked about some crazy things with her and she’s always been there by my side. I’m actually struggling lately and I have my first 90 minute session next week. She’s going to make sure that I have time to do the session and she’s very supportive of me doing it. Even if the person you’re with doesn’t support you and it doesn’t work out just remember that it’s a step to bring you to the right person. My first marriage was a nightmare but I wouldn’t change it because it brought me to my wife now
JustmesadlyJustmesadly
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That’s so awesome
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