*Potential hocd trigger alert* So my therapist have decided that it was a good idea too make me sign up for a community kinda app as a homework kinda thing. //she originally wanted me to sign up for a dating site but I’m both a.Way to shy and ugly for that and b.there aren’t really and good dating apps out there for gay girls// She think that I need to leave my comfort zone and socialize.... so basically what I’m trying too say is that umm if anyone would be interested in chatting sometimes or something my sc is ellsadw I can’t guarantee that I won’t be a awkward sarcastic mess tho hehe

I’m a gay girl too! Tindr has honestly been very helpful in my dating life, because I’ve never understood how to meet other girls in person lol. Less pressure online.

Dude I’m like way too shy for tinder and making profiles and stuff are my worst nightmare because I hate hate hate my face heheh. But yeah I definitely agree that it’s much less pressure talking to girls online!! Talking too girls in person is terrifying and I’m like high key intimidated bye how beautiful women are and that just ads to my shyness lol

The only problem with that is that i literally don’t have any friends haha. I’m not joking when I say that the only people I talk to is like 30-70 year old women at my cat shelter and my therapist lol?

Haha yaaay ! Not creepy at all dude haha ! And yeah I just recently started working there when I dropped outta school I wasn’t really to sure I would be able to stay because or my ocd but ITS BEEN GOOD THIS FAR !!?!

I love cats, I’m very jealous!! I hope it continues to be a good experience for you. Do you have any cats yourself?

Yeah two cats and a dog ! You?? And Yeah my brain does the same ! I tell myself that I’ve said or done something wrong and that nobody really actually wants to be talking with me and the fact that I’m autistic makes that even worse cause I sometimes struggle to read signals and shit and start worrying about miss reading stuff and being annoying af.

You have a lot of pets! I can’t have cats in my apartment but I have a gecko and she’s my favorite!! I am familiar with autism, I was actually having a lengthy conversation about it with someone earlier today about how autistic people are constantly trying to accommodate to neurotypical people, but neurotypicals will have like a fit if they are asked to do the same. I’ve seen how tough it can be. You are not annoying or alone!

YOU HAVE A GECKO?!!?! I LOVE GECKOS SO MUCH IM SO JEALOUS !! WHAT KIND DO YOU HAVÆ

wow I just got way to excited over your gecko I went all caps and Icelandic letters mode lol

GECKOS EXCITE MEtooOOO. Like a lot lol. They’re so fascinating to me. She’s a crested gecko! She’s almost a year old, still smol.

Awwwww I Love chrEsted gEckor sooo much I almost got one then I realized that my cats would probably eat it

And a year ?!! a tiny little baby ahh

You should get one! Just keep it away from the furry pets. They are very easy to take care of and are super cute and funny. I wish I could post pictures on here to show you!

Can’t say I disagree with her statement that I need to socialize more tho all the human friends I have are all old ladies working at the same cat shelter as me lol

Haha, you are not alone! I’m sure you are gorgeous inside and out. I was okay with picking out photos of myself, but I had NO idea what to write in the bio. I second guessed everything I tried to write. So I had my friend write a funny honest bio about me and it was helpful! ? maybe having a friend help you create a profile would help?

Also,,, I don’t even know like WHERE I would go to meet gay people in person??? Like clubs? Bars? Hahahaha I’d rather die. We have limited options ?

I’m jealous that you work at a cat shelter. I’ve been trying to volunteer at the local shelter for years but it never works out. I’ll be your friend! Not to be creepy lol

And yeahhhh we do !! and gay could probably be fun if I wasn’t too scared too leave my house but I also feel like gay bars are only kinda packed with gay men and straight people anyway haha

Yeaa that happens sometimes. I have a girlfriend now (that I met on Tindr!) and I would like to make queer friends and I try to look at the queer meetup websites but I have too much anxiety to actually go somewhere, especially alone. I tell myself I’m unlikable and I don’t actually fit in anywhere, it’s really great ?.

Dude do you have like snapchat or insta I need gecko pictures asap!!!

Hahah okoks mines fultbarn ( That means like ugly kid (roughly translated) in Swedish

Also my profile pic is a Swedish politician I’m not a middle aged man I swear hahah