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I want you to think about your OCD as just OCD, and not its content. View you OCD without consider its content, and tell me, does it makes you uncomfortable or afraid? It's just OCD, it's just a voice that pops up in your mind, but it's not your voice, why? Because it does make you feel anxious, sad, etc. So, since OCD is not us, why should we consider it like if it was us? It's not rational you know? I understand that it is hard to keep in mind things like that, that's why we have to do recovery work, it's important, you can't recover if you don't work. View OCD as a loud neighbor, so as someone who doesn't need your attention, because he is not important
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Thank you fille. That's a good analogy
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I'd say to talk to a social worker at your school. You don't need a diagnosis to atleast talk with them and open the door. They will always welcome communicating with you. I'm not sure what your situation is with your parents, but you should tell them what's going on so that it can be easier to get accommodations/have an appointment with a doctor to get a diagnosis. A 504/IEP plan can be so helpful where you get accommodations like extended time on tests. I even had an accomodation where I could leave class for 10 minutes no questions asked with a pass so I could calm down when too overwhelmed. l I barely graduated high school, I got a 1.7 and finished my last year in an alternative school. Now I'm 22 with a 3.79 GPA in a community College and transferring to a bigger college in fall. It gets better.
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social workers can even reach out to your parents for you / with you so you don't have to do it alone. Support is out there.
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Thank you man that's helpful
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For one, be kind to yourself. It's been an extremely hard year for everyone. Also I've been in your position, it does get better! Talk to a school counselor, or tell your parents you feel defeated. I know its hard but communication is important. You arnt your ocd, and your grades. Keep you head up. Life does get better
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Thank you :)
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Hi ❤️ I’m really struggling right now I’m in my sophomore year of Highschool and I’ve finally started planning or thinking abt my future (for context I was extremely depressed and suicidal from 6-9th grade) After conquering my depression this is a huge leap for me and I’m proud of myself ❤️ But there’s something still holding me down :( and I’m not sure what to do anymore that thing is OCD. Since 6th grade I have had strong and invasive intrusive thoughts all the time they scare me so bad and make me feel as though I’m not even real anymore :( I’m sick of taking the time to do ridiculous compulsions to rid or ease these thoughts it’s a waste of time and energy and it hurts me so bad I feel like I will never get to just live my life without this :( How can I plan my future when I can’t even find myself in this mess of anxiety 💔 I’m so tired of fighting my mental health it’s been years from anxiety attacks to sh to survived suicide attempts (I got help dw❤️🩹) and recovery there. Just to be thrown into a storm of awful scary sickening thoughts day and night-when can I just be a normal teenager and possibly a happy adult? How do I conquer this so I can love myself to the fullest and live my life free and happy? :( ❤️❤️🩹 I’m so scared to talk to my parents about it I’m ashamed of my thoughts and every time I bring it up they just say I shouldn’t be diagnosing myself or it’s just ADHD. It really really hurts me they have no idea how awful this feels and it makes me feel so alone sometimes 💔
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WHY is it so bad?? who was gonna tell me 16 was just DREAD, my ocd has flared up worse than ever and i can’t go to therapy weekly anymore. im getting worse and i can’t do it. I just want to give up.
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(Long post warning) Hi, I’ve been struggling with severe OCD for six years now. it started in 2019 with my theme being getting sick/emetophobia. it devastated my life. I almost didn’t graduate high school from it. I remember washing my hands for three hours one day until they were nearly bloody while crying and asking why I could not stop doing it. I remember id have to write and rewrite sentences when I did my English homework and that’s why I nearly failed that class. I remember how I would spend up to thirty minutes to an hour pacing the halls of my apartment while my mom was asleep until I neutralized the thoughts about throwing up and I could finally go to bed. I don’t know when it happened, but my theme switched. Sometimes in late 2020 or early 2021, it switched to POCD. It started with a single thought, and I focused on it and it’s been my theme since then for four years. It has been absolutely destroying me. I feel so disgusted and lost and just tired. My compulsions are severe now. I thought they were bad before, but now they’re ten times worse. I can’t eat, drink, change my clothes, walk, or even do things on my phone normally. I’ve developed so many mental compulsions that it’s so intricate and complicated yet at the same time I’ve done them so much that they’ve become normal. An example I have is if im putting on a shirt and I have a “bad” thought, I have to take it off and put it back on two more times (that’ll make it 3 times I put the shirt back on - odd numbers are my safe number). I have to have a good thought on the third time otherwise I have to take it off and put it on two more times to make it five times I put on that shirt. If not that then I just put on a different shirt because the original is now tainted with my bad thought. I can’t open apps on my phone. It’s with the numbers again. If I open TikTok once while having a bad thought - I have to close it and open it two more times and so on. Sometimes I do it up to 30 times. So I just don’t do things usually. I don’t turn on the TV because I know I’ll redo it. I don’t open a book or grab it off my shelf because I’ll have to repeat the action. I can’t even lay in bed without getting up and redoing it even if im exhausted. I just feel so helpless. I don’t know what to do. I feel disgusting and even now my minds screaming at me that I am dirty and what I think is true. I just wish I was free of this, I wish I could just live my life. I’ve wasted hours and days because of my compulsions. I mask it so well around my friends. I don’t do them in front of anyone or I’ve learned to hide it well. But when im back home alone, it goes haywire. I just want to live again.
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