Hey ladies I just wanna have a girl talk with y’all. I’m 15 and every girl at my school has boobs and I’m have small boobs. I want body confidence and accept my body ever since I was a kid my mom and her friend would always tell me I should eat more to grow my breast for me to be worthy of guys cause they said “you should get big boobs so guys want you” obviously I know they’re judgemental and have confronted my mom about this. That was in 5th grade ever since that day even when it was hot outside I still wore a jacket cause if I wore a t-shirt I was insecure of how my boobs were mind you I WAS 10 years old worrying about body confidence. “It takes a second to call a girl fat, and years of starvation”- Harry Styles I’m still slowly recovering from this words any tips to wear t-shirts when it’s hot out so I don’t need to cover with a jacket

Ok so I was flat my entire life. 32 -34 A at most. I was also only 96 pounds until I was about 20 so I was told to gain weight constantly. I'm 22 now, 23 this month and boobs have finally kicked in and I've gained weight so im at about 145 and 5'4. Late blooming is a very real thing. I gained weight by quitting smoking(I was always in denial smoking was a part of this I started smoking cigs at 14 and weed around 15/16), eating out way more, and also on a medicine called Lamictal that has a side effect of weight gain(but it wasn't over night). My legs were also very thin and a very noticeable thigh gap, that's officially changed. Listen, there are many many many men that prefer thinner and petite women, I can even go as far as saying it might be a majority. Its pretty equal . Don't focus on hormonal boys thoughts, their preferences change over time too. Alot of really wanted girls in my highschool now struggle with over weight issues in their 20s. Bodys change and are all worth love.

There's soooo many crop type tops that can only be worn with small boobs. Maybe a practice for you can be to not wear a jacket when it's hot out. Maybe start with a cardigan and start transitioning.