I need advice..: so I talked to this guy and I felt like I really like him and then he got scared and said he needed to make himself happy first so we stopped talking then one day he called and now we are talking but I keep feeling like I’m not really into him and I really wish I was and I’m still sticking around giving this a chance I just don’t feel like I’m very attracted to him but I think I have something really good and idk if I need to back off so he doesn’t get hurt or if I should keep giving it a chance. It’s been maybe a little over a month since we started talking and I’ve only hung out with him twice when we met and when I stayed the night we him. Advice and opinions please?

I’m trying to see if I develope any feelings is that normal?

@ashleyboo I guess you wouldn't have done that if you weren't interested at all. Maybe you're just confused you don't feel as much

@Daria Alexandrovna It makes me feel some kind is sadness sometimes like I wish I really did like him

@ashleyboo Let go of this feeling, it's serving you no good. You can still be happy by feeling as much as you do, and you'll never know, if it becomes stronger or not. And it's not bad!

@Daria Alexandrovna It’s okay to just sit back and find out? I just worry about hurting him and he’s been hurt already which makes it even worse

@ashleyboo I’m sorry I’m talking to you about this but idk this is the place I felt I could come to.

@ashleyboo Just be honest if he asks you. If he tells you that he wants to be with you forever and asks about you, tell him what you truly feel and he'll get it. You aren't obligated to feel something. And he should understand that

@ashleyboo It's okay as soon as you don't give fake promises or say something that isn't yet true for you

@Daria Alexandrovna Okay

@Daria Alexandrovna Is it normal to feel like saying I miss you too when he tells me he misses me? It’s just like a sudden reaction it last like two seconds

@ashleyboo If you feel like saying it then why not :) Intentions come from emotions. I think it may last for seconds bc then you might be overthinking it

@Daria Alexandrovna Maybe idk

@ashleyboo Thanks for the advice hun

@ashleyboo you're welcome!

Why are you trying?

There needs to be something behind your actions. Something you do like or need in him

@Daria Alexandrovna The love he’s willing to give and the way he expressed himself when we started talking I guess I just saw potential in him

@ashleyboo Do you see it now?

@Daria Alexandrovna I know what he wants that’s all I can really say idk why I don’t just straight up say yes he wants forever with me

@ashleyboo that's so soon for him to say that

@ashleyboo I think your reaction is normal

@Daria Alexandrovna Is it okay to keep trying to pursue something with him even if I don’t feel that way? What if one day I do? It’s been literally 1 month, 1 week, and two days since we even started talking.

@ashleyboo I mean what’s your advice on this if you don’t mind me asking

@ashleyboo You don't have to feel the same way he does. And his words are so loud, sounds like just a lot of passion at the beginning, a lot of people experience this. You know, I have a bf, and I wasn't ever like crazy about him, I just really liked him and now I love him for his personality. He seemed to like me more at the beginning and say all those things I wasn't ready to say then. So if you like him and feel like there's something in him that you want to have around you then go on and see what's going to happen next. It's okay you feel something different or 'less' than him.

@Daria Alexandrovna Thank you.

It’s like when he chose to step down the first down it completely shut me off

@maria