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I’m so so sorry you are going through I will pray for you and your mom do you have any family members who can help you? And is your mom willing to leave him if you guys came leave him?

that sounds really awful, and i really wish there was some advice i could give. i didn’t want to not say anything to this because it just sounds so awful and i’d feel bad just ignoring it. just remember that if you even need to vent that the community is here for you

I will recommend to find help in the community like a church and ask for places around your community for woman who are abused mentally or physically by their partner and once you find it move out even if is to a shelter they will help your mom find a job and get on her feet and hopefully one day your father will change and you guys could be together again but this needs to be done in order for him to understand I send you love and hughs and please come back and keep us update how are you doing

My father was emotionally abusive which I know isn’t the same but it’s so hard and to deal with ocd on top of that is just hell. Is there anyone you can tell or talk to ? A teacher ? A counselor? How old are you? Is there anyone else you could stay with? Have you told your mom how you feel? Would she ever leave ?

Listen to me, you may not be able to fix this situation entirely but it’s very important that you do not let him crush your spirit. I want you to look yourself in the mirror every single day and tell yourself that you are a strong, vibrant young woman who is going to do big things and that you are brave.