Someone read ASAP bro. So my upstairs neighbor was being hella loud right? So I told my mom to tell them to be quiet but my mom said “oh they have a kid, it’s okay” basically she doesn’t want a problem and she’s the type to not use her voice to make it known she’s uncomfortable. Well okay... if she’s that type of person then I’ll take it into my own hands.. so I went up and confronted they were like “What? What noise...your crazy.. when we walk it has to make noise” I said “Idk it’s maybe three bed or chair idk if it’s walking” I told them just to be quiet so we don’t have a problem. She closed the door on me. Well okay. Am I wrong? Because my sister doesn’t use her voice I basically carry the whole family, because I’m the only one that uses my voice and speak up. Cause my mom doesn’t like problems and even if she felt uncomfortable she’ll won’t say anything.

Huh it pushed me to the point to tell them that? I’ve specifically told them I don’t what to have a problem and I try to make it as civil as possible. I’ve been told to not be as loud and my family said ok. Where in the Peter Pan was I rude when all I ask was to be more quiet and plus after I told her to be quiet the noise subside so who right was right

@Peridottttt "Be quiet so we don't have a problem" is hella sassy. Like alright If "we're" loud whatcha go do hm?? Wtf does "have a problem" look like??" Why should anyone be afraid of you having a problem lol A simple "hey guys idk if you mean to but we can really hear you guys downstairs if you could be a little quieter we'd really appreciate it" would have come across way better and you probably would've gotten a "oh sorry about that we'll keep it in mind our bad" There is a way to get solutions without hostility. You came here for an opinion, but actually you came here for someone to agree with you.

@whatadooo Oh sorry she’s chinese I’ve said it in Chinese so the translation is off

@whatadooo Nah I wanted a opinion I’ve heard opinions from both sides

@Peridottttt I apologize for assuming your tone

@whatadooo Which one that I spoke in Chinese or the opinion one? I heard from both sides if I’m wrong I just wanna know why. I’m not perfect I’ve made mistakes I’ve been wrong at times and never got the chance to apologize idk if you were insulting me but yes time gets lost in text

@Peridottttt Tone gets lost in text

@whatadooo Hey thank you for reading my post I didn’t think anyone would I’ll leave it at I’m not saying I’m right or wrong but all I wanted was an opinion

The noise was above me I know