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I am so unhappy with my focus either. At work I just don’t feel like doing much, bare minimum. And then it bothers me somewhat, and I seek re-assurance or re-assure myself. Once I am in good mood and not obsessed, my executive function gets back. And then lost again.
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Have you ever found anything that helps (aside from the intrusive thoughts subsiding)? I had a real bad flare up a couple years ago that was pretty debilitating but even after getting it under control I feel like my ability to guide my focus is almost non-existent. Which is a real problem because my job requires a significant amount of focus and self guided work. This has all been made worse by the pandemic since I have been working from home and have very little accountability. All of this really affects my self-esteem
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@ClearMind20 I have not. I do less and have been getting away with this so far, although it bothers me. I very much want to restore my focus.
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@ClearMind20 I feel like taking a break or leave, and feel that sometime off work would help. But who knows. I have been working at my job for 16 years and I lost interest, but I still need to earn money. So I am not sure from where this lack of focus comes - from ocd or from lack of interest, or both
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I also once thought that I have adhd, and also dropped that idea
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I realized that I do see some solutions and I work towards them. I use Headspace app now, and doing 10 days productivity course there. This app helps to train and retrain mind to direct focus, not to chase thoughts, let go of thoughts, to accept, not resist, relax, etc. I started using it two months ago and now I am more aware of what I am thinking about, I note when I do rumination or mental reviewing and let go of that, at least trying, and succeed in 50 percent or so so far. I have been doing guided meditations daily from Headspace for two months. I am hopeful that with regular use my mind will get trained in those things. I love being productive, but ocd often takes over fooling with a sense of urgency that I need to figure out something that distracts me from what I want to do. In general, I juggle many things- family, job, kids, marriage, friends, personal finance, self care and fitness, house, investments, but I know that I waiste too much time and focus on what ocd calls for. I want to change that and it is the goal of all my inner workings now, including ERP therapy that I believe is making things worse before it gets better.
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I don’t know what I can do. I guess this is more of a depression thing than OCD but who knows. I have been battling this ongoing war within myself for years now and it’s been affecting my academic performance. situation of mine right now: I haven’t done a lot of work for my classes this month and I feel like I’m going to fail the semester again. I don’t know what it is but I can never seem to begin any work. I know I am capable but why can’t I get myself to start? why has this been going on for so long? I don’t understand. I have a history of good grades back in high school before I turned 17. I don’t even know how to describe it. it’s like I’ve been paralyzed and cannot do any work. but I can somehow do offside tasks like pinterest boards or random youtube videos. if I get rid of those, what do I do? I end up sleeping. because I’m tired. I have a low vitamin D deficiency & have been trying to get energy. I’m at a loss. I also bought unnecessary stuff on sunday when I went out with my family. I bought some things for the kids and I ended up buying myself a dress and a few accessories. now I have to work extra to gain that money back doing uber eats because I need it asap. it’s like I don’t want to work, for now. my coworkers who are around my age don’t work as much & I think to myself, “wow, they must be getting in the work done” meanwhile I’m working 3 days a week (which isn’t much) and attending school. I feel like if I change my schedule again, I’ll ruin it for the rest of my driver coworkers. I’m in a lead position at work so having to put on a mask is quite tiring. there’s so much I want to say that I don’t think it will fit in this post. I have booked a mental health session with a school counselor. all I want at the moment is to have my own place and be in a better mental state to take care of my cats. they mean a lot to me but this stupid ass undiagnosed mental issue is getting in the way. sorry for the long rant. I am tired.
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Hi all, As of Monday, I received the diagnosis for Pure OCD during an ADHD evaluation. It came as a bit of a shock, despite knowing my grandpa had OCD (according to my parents and extended family, he passed away before I was born). I'm just a little lost on where to go from here. I'm trying to find a therapist who does both OCD and ADHD, but it's surprisingly hard. Do people typically have different therapists for their different needs? I've mentioned it to close friends and family, and when I've tried to discuss what I'm feeling, they said they do it too to a certain extent which is a little invalidating. Anyway, sorry for the ramble. Would anyone be able to give some advice/supportive words for a newly diagnosed college student? Thanks :)
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Hi! I’m new to the NOCD community, but I’ve been dealing with OCD since I was 12. I’m almost 29 now, and my biggest issue is health anxiety. It’s gotten to the point where getting work done is nearly impossible because i can’t stop spiraling. I’m lucky that i work remotely, but also makes it easier to be in my own head… Asking for advice - how do you all deal with the intense anxiety and are able to make it through a 9-5 work day? Any suggestions on how I can actually be productive? Thank you!
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