I made a post earlier but it was very low effort so I want to remake it. When I was 13, 16 now. I catfished a girl I was dating. My OCD is just now on me. It is telling me to tell the girl I catfished her. Wont confessing make it worst? Is there even a point in confessing. I am a better person now and will never do anything like that again.

Definately feel like it is for myself. More for my OCD than for myself. I feel the need to apologise in hope it will take my guilt away but the thing is, I didnt have any of this guilt untill I met a girl I like then all this guilt started flooding in.

@dumbaby Yeah

@dumbaby Well just remember you do not have to confess anything. Expecially when youre the only one that knows. Fight that demon. Youve accepted the things youve done, you know they are wrong (if they were) and you know you will never do them again.) Confessing can either ruin a relationship or change nothing at all. So there is equally no point in doing either.

@dumbaby Confessing can only end badly. As soon as (IF) You were to confess. Think about the relationship OCD that would come in. What if you start having thoughts of "Does he still love me for what I did?" "Will he leave me now"

@dumbaby Confessing wont just hurt his mental health but yours aswell was the point of that comment

@dumbaby Ah okay, Okay mine is way worst so im very happy for you (not talking about the catfish issue but something way worst) So im very very happy for you. But look, 50% of the population has sexually experimented as a child.

@dumbaby is what you did sexual experimentation or was it in your older days?