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That’s really hard. It sounds like your family has different expectations about what is acceptable in regards to your body than you do. It’s your body! I know my mom would say the same if I didn’t wear a bra in public, she’s more conservative and old fashioned and “a lady” wouldn’t go out without one on. Times are changing though, and body positivity is so much more prevalent (thank goodness). If you’ve already talked to them and nothing is changing, I’m sorry you’re still having to deal with that.
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It’s ok I’m trying to cope :) Yea i feel ya my mom is the exact same way it’s rough
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i think you’re completely justified in what you feel. hearing something like that can really sting. if you want, you could bring this up to them. being honest about how it affects you could possibly open up a conversation on what kind of language would make you feel respected. if they continue without change, i would suggest connecting with someone for support. ur family members should bring you up, not the opposite. good luck with everything 🌿
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Hey ty! I’ve already talked to my mom about it several times so now I’m just trying to learn how to cope :) Maybe I should reach out to some friends instead :)
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And ty sm for replying!
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My dad jus noticed and told me i was being uncivilized. Is this true?
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Your body, your choice ♡
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Agreed❤️
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