i literally cant take this anymore it's too much

People can't possibly understand what it's like to have OCD but it doesn't excuse them from supporting you. There are so many people hurting from this illness but this is a good place to get support and understanding. I've spent time curled up in a ball on the floor crying because I didn't think I could stand it anymore so I understand what you're feeling. Be kind to yourself. You're dealing with an incredibly hard situation but it can change. You can move through this. Remember OCD lies and lies and lies. You will be ok.

Never give up hope! You are loved and matter more than you know! OCD feels so real but its lying to you, please, you are so strong! ❤️

Trust me, it gets better. Talk to some family or friends. Do something you enjoy, I’m here if you want to talk. You are strong and will get through this.

You’re going to get through this💜💜. I’ve known hopelessness many times and I know how terrible it feels, but please hold on because it really will pass💜💜

Are either of you feeling suicidal?

What’s your name? If you don’t comfortable sharing that, I understand❤️.

I think they may not know what to say. People get uncomfortable so they let stuff slide and hope they don't have to talk about it. But there are also lots of people who do care and this site is the place to go for help. And I care. I know it's devastating and feels like it will go on and on but it doesn't. Life can change so quickly. My Mom used to say where there's life, there's hope. You have both. Right now it's rough but you can get though it. ❤

Put those thoughts aside for a bit. Watch TV or read or listen to music. Do something you like and be kind to yourself. You're in my thoughts.