Hey guys , I just want to know how I should deal with these thoughts . I have moments where I realize that I really do love being a woman and I like being pretty and doing girly stuff but my brain won’t stop asking stupid shit like why do I like it so much and how come men don’t wanna be women and why is being a man so uncomfortable for me and how are men comfortable that way and what do I really enjoy about being a woman anyway ? And am I sure that’s really who I am ? I can’t get these questions to leave me alone and I don’t why I feel like I need to answer them . When I hear men that have the same theme as me and they say they know if they were a woman they would be depressed it’s triggering for me because it’s like what if I start to think like that to ? Cause then that would me I am a boy and I really really really don’t want to be . I loved some of my happiest moments as a gurl . Can someone please tell me how I should respond to these types of thoughts ?

I've been really overwhelmed with thoughts of detransitioning even though I don't want to like thinking I'm not a boy. It's been making my anxiety go up like crazy but I've never had this problem this much before, and I've always felt so proud of who I was and stuff but I don't know why this is coming up all of a sudden and I'm scared. I don't want to detransition but these thoughts won't go away. I often have feminine interests and have been trying to get into a better mindset and I feel like those things are making me feel more feminine and I don't want to feel that way.

I just recently kind of was getting over my Constant spiral of “am I a lesbian or bi?”(im a lesbian) and now I’ve been tackled by “am I trans” even tho I’ve never questioned my gender ever, I love being a woman, and I never thought I’d ever be dealing with this since I’ve always been so sure of being a woman, anybody else?

My boyfriend is ftm, and I’m very supportive of him and his journey with gender. It opened a lot of conversations between us about each others gender/sexuality. I’ve known for a long time that i’m pan, but I’ve struggled a lot with my own gender. My OCD causes me to doubt myself a lot, one day i feel hyper feminine and have no desire to identify as a man, but the next day I am extremely dysphoric about my body/hair/voice and wonder if I’m ftm as well? and then it goes away the next day. Some days I don’t even feel feminine OR masculine. I spend a lot of my time ruminating over if i’m trans, and abt the possibility of me spending the rest of my life either not knowing, or settling for whatever’s easiest for myself and everyone around me. I don’t know if I actually believe I’m a man, or if I’m pretending, or if it’s just in my head. Its like I don’t know what to trust since my opinion is different every day, and it feels like I can’t trust my own intuition. It’s starting to affect my sex drive, my sleep, my self confidence, and my self image. It’s really confusing me and I’m wondering if anyone can relate or has some advice. Thank you:)