- Username
- Mayte
- Date posted
- 3y ago
It will get better I dealt with it nonstop for 2 years important thing is to live and focus on what’s in front of you
I've had it for over a year... I can't remember what normal feels like or how I used to see and feel. Especially a video I saw made me feel weird which made me feel more disconnected. I hope it does go away!
You have to get to the root fear. Not 100% sure but I feel like you are struggling with understanding your identity. Just like all OCD people this is normal for all of us. Most of us have been trained up with pain, humiliation, shame, guilt and rejection surrounding us. Am I correct? My advice would be, become more grounded in love. Treat yourself with mercy and compassion and love and don’t put yourself down. Depersonalization happens to all of us and it’s just a feeling not reality. Deep down inside, I know you know that this is real life and not fake, the root is what we have to work through and realize. Stay strong!!! Love you <3 ❤️
Yes you are correct for the part that said "am I correct?" Correct... And wait so its a feeling not actually like real... Oh okay I see what you mean. Thank you so much! :') I now wonder if existential thoughts make it worst like I think of how we're all in a planet, and we're alive basically questioning the uncertainty okay I see my problem 😅 but Thank you so much!!
@Mayte All the glory goes to God!! :)
I have this same thing. I hate it. But I also realized that ocd had attached to the derealization... so all that questioning... does this feel normal? Is it worse? Etc... that is ocd. Do ERP with those thoughts... maybe things are normal your ocd is just making you question it... maybe things don't feel normal... erp with this has helped. Stay present and keep on task with what ever you're doing. And just let those thoughts come and go and sit with the anxiety and uncertainty
Thank you so much!! And I will for sure just try to sit with the anxiety and uncertainty! ☺
I’ve dealt with this alottttt it FUCKINT sucks it’ll pass after awhile just try to cope as best as u can
Hey I saw you on another post. Would love to know about the type of stuff you think about cause I’m wondering if I’m the only one lol
I get this to like I’m detached from rest of the family and the world like I don’t know who I am anymore I fill in a daze and a fog and stuck in my head in my Owen scary world I look in the mirror and don’t know who looking back at me it so scary I thought I was someone called Clair not my reall self or name
Can someone tell me if you can get used to depersonalization/derealization? I don't remember what normal feels like so I doubt Ill ever feel like that again.
I think I'm still in the derealization state! But I'm trying for it to not bother me I'm aware of how I feel and how it makes me see and anxiety makes me fall more deeper into the feeling but less anxiety still keeps me on it but still won't give up! Quick question of derealization is it supposed to always be severe or can you still have derealization and be calm? :D
this may sound confusing but nothing seems real, i feel really dizzy in a way, like im going to faint, but im not going to? i cant explain it. i keep looking around and everything seems different, its making me feel anxious. is there any way i could fix this??
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