Me and my gf have split up but we have agreed to stay living together because we have to young children. Has anyone been through something similar and can it work?

How did you cope with your ROCD when you first moved in with you SO? Did it get worse when you first moved in together and then subside? My rocd was doing pretty good for a while but over the weekend my boyfriend and I moved in together and it’s been great but now my rocd is starting to get really bad again. I don’t know if this is normal rocd things when you first move in together or something else. I just keep having the looping thought of “I don’t really love him” I’ve been trying to say maybe I do, maybe I don’t. I’ve even just full on agreed with it and said yeah your right I don’t but it gives me anxiety that I’m not getting anxiety from that. I have no idea if this is normal. Sorry for kinda ranting on but I just need advice from couples who lives together.

My bf and I just broke up and I haven’t felt this sort of heartbreak in a very long time. I’m crying all the time and can barely get out of bed. Idek what to do with myself and I’m terrified I’m going to relapse because of all the added stress. I think us breaking up was the right decision but it hurts so fucking bad idek what i should do anymore. I’m not normally the emotional type when it comes to situations like this either. Any advice?

Me and my significant other have been dating for a while now we are both in the military and we both went to a remote location ever sense we have been here I’ve been so insecure we with each other 24/7 back home and it’s not the same here now I constantly nick pick at her about other guys. If I see her look at a guy too long or if I see her laugh with them anything involving someone else that is male I get super uncomfortable and almost even jealous that someone else has her attention she talked to me yesterday night and said she’s been having thought of being on her own and leaving me which honestly broke me we are still togather but I guess she wants her space so we are not spending much time together or talking much I guess pretty much a "break" I know she’s not the type to go around a mess with another person she truly wants to find herself again and see if she truly wants to be with me I guess and I have to admit i was in the wrong for sure I would be controlling in ways and was someone I didn’t wanna be and always on defense mode for any person talking to her that was a guy. And now it caused her to want a “break from me I talked to my mom because moms are always right ? And she told me I was definitely in the wrong no one wants to be with someone who is controlling and insecure etc my mom pretty much told me she was her own person before our relationship and it’s come to trust at the end of the day and that I can’t control the narrative I just need other opinions on what to do to help save us and my self