Someone please help.please please So I met a guy I thought was a family friend cuz he knew a lot of information about my relatives including recent events and I thought he worked as a taxi driver and a delivery driver. And he offered me a free ride home and I accepted twice. Turns out he’s not as close to my family as I thought and the first time we met he asked if I was married even tho I’m 18 and the second time got really pushy to get me to his house. I feel Like Im partly to blame for being so gullible but I thought I was getting a free taxi ride. Now I’m deathly afraid that I’ll see him again and that he might be stalking me cuz he mentioned he’s seen me a few times before n wanted to talk to me. I lied about where I work and everything. I informed people around me and my mum said she’s gonna talk with him. But I’m still scared something might happen. Something in my mind is like oh why would the universe introduce u two if he wasn’t gonna do something horrible to you. And now im losing sleep. Next time If I do see him im gonna run away even tho he knows when im usually in town cuz he’s there for work. I live in a small town too. Any advice anyone please??

I know it’s hard to stop worrying but maybe if he does something again then tell someone. Maybe try not to worry until then. I totally know that’s easier said then done.

Thank you so much!! I’ll try my hardest

Oh my gosh. That sounds awful and terrifying. That's really nice that you are getting help and talking to the people that you TRUST, like your mom, and that she's going to help you stand up to him. I completely get if you are nervous and sleepless. Keep staying close to the people you trust. I pray that everything goes okay, and trust in your abilities bc of course even though I can't imagine what you're going through and waiting for, you know that OCD wants to intensify the worst case scenario thoughts. I hope you are okay.

Thank you so much for this :( it means a lot especially since I tend to downplay a lot of creepy interactions I have and then end up being put in fucked up and vulnerable situations. I’m hoping that since I only interacted w him three times, it won’t further escalate if an adult his age is stepping in to talk to him. It definetely feels like my OCD is amplifying the worst case scenario in order to ‘prepare me’. But it just eats away at my day. I’m going away for holiday so I’m hoping he’ll forget about me but until then I’m just gonna ask my friends to pick me up from work :) hopefully everything turns out okay. What made it weirder is I found out he tried getting it on with two other women in my family 😬 it’s just so weird