so my dad most likely won’t get me therapy until I get a diagnosis because he thinks I don’t have OCD. I want to go to the doctors appointment today and ask for help with a diagnosis without my dad being there. so what can I do?

So you are just going to have to ask the doctor if you guys can talk alone. Or maybe she’ll even ask you. Mine does

Thank you and your doctor sounds nice!

Yeah ask to speak with her alone, and doctors depending on where you are located give out a mental health questionnaire. If you don’t feel brave enough to ask out loud I would write on the paper that you wish to speak with her privately.