someone pls explain why false attraction feels stronger than real attraction. i get so disgusted and distressed when i experience false attraction bc it feels real. how do i end this.

The human brain is programmed to feel and remember negative feelings more vividly. It's a defence mechanism that isn't very useful today, but in the past we used it to remember threats and remember when and how to protect ourselves. Its obvious that it feels more real, that doesn't make it true though.