I feel for you, it is a lonely feeling, they just have no clue
Thank you so much!
Sorry to hear that you’re lonely. If the people in your life struggle to cope with what you’re going through, then it is their responsibility to better manage their own emotions and how they relate to stressful situations in life. Don’t feel bad for feeling bad, you don’t have to disguise or hide that you are struggling at all.
Thank you so much for this! I’m not sure if it is better to hide it from them or to be honest with them, it seems like either way it is never good enough. I’m not sure if to just leave my husband if I make him so unhappy, he makes it seem like he deserves more and will be happier without me.
Yeah people can get annoyed of it, i honestly dont blame them, but sometimes you wished to talk about it with someone and they will truly listen, i understand both sides…but saying that you are making them unhappy…its a bit harsh. I dont know the full story of ur mom and husband, but isnt ur husband signed up for it in the vows “sickness & health”. You dont have to fight with him but talk to him and maybe try to make him understand what is that your going thru.
Yes that’s what I told him. And I e honestly have been doing very well, just a really bad day this weekend. I do understand there point of view but I have been doing very well, I just had a really bad day this weekend and the last really bad day like that was 4 months ago so it’s not like it is everyday. I could understand more if it was an everyday occurrence.