I’m sorry you feel like that :(
Yes
Isolation living alone has made mine so much worse
Yea sometimes I feel that way, but then you are giving up your quality of life to please your OCD. You have to accept that you are going to hurt people sometimes
What if its the worst kind of hurt possible? Like life ruining hurt?
@Mochelle What is life ruining hurt? I don’t know of such a thing. We can overcome any kind of hurt and go on and live our lives.
@Anonymous You make a fair point, I was thinking of having a kid with someone I might not love and ruining my child's life by either not loving them or giving them a stable home, and I could be in a marriage where I'm constantly questioning if I love anyone rather than just being by myself and never having to put people through it all
@Mochelle Well all of those are common OCD thoughts, but I don’t see why that is so horrible. Maybe you wouldn’t love them. Maybe you wouldn’t give them a stable home. Maybe you would doubt your marriage. You’re a human being. You just do the best you can. That’s all you can do. Everyone hurts people. They can get to choose what they do about it.