- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 4y
Donβt tell them where you live (can say generally where) and maybe just start with first names
Yeah don't think he even knows my last name and I just told him Ohio. Hope I didn't say too much!
I have had two online friends (they're sisters) for I'd say at least 7 or 8 years. They're from another country which I find fascinating! I'd consider them both very close friends, yet I have never met them in real life. In your situation, I'd reveal personal information when you know you feel comfortable revealing it. If he pressures you into giving it out...red flag, don't do it. Trust comes with time! I'd normally give the maybe maybe not speech here, but because this is a situation where you could actually be in danger if things go wrong, id 100% ask him for pictures of himself, or maybe for his Snapchat. Just to prove he's real and not a 60 year old man.
Well we met on Instagram and I have seen pictures of him on there and all of his pictures are the same person (him) or him with friends. He also gas gone live on Instagram and I watched it and it was him. He also hasnt pressured me at all for any info. He asked me where I was from and originally I didnt tell him and didnt ask again so that was good. I did end up telling him my state bc I guess he has some family there (he told me where his parents were from and I told him my state after that). He then told me the city his parents were from and said I didn't have to tell him my city just asked if I knew of the one his family is from. Nothing seems super creepy. Since it doesnt idk if i should just accept uncertainty about the rest. Idk. I like talking to him bc we have stuff in common but I stopped replying (just liked his message) because I got scared.
@Hopeforthefuture From what you've said it sounds pretty safe. I wouldn't give out any other personal information until chatting on the phone or snap chatting or something. Be safe on the internet! I don't think you should stop talking to him, that's probably what your ocd wants you to do. You don't have to do anything you don't actually want to do. If you like him and want to talk to him, for sure do it. No harm in that :)
@alexisrae1999 Yeah. I mean I didn't get any major red flags. I am pretty cautious about that stuff and I've never had an Internet friend before. I am 20 so I am not a young teen or anything like that either which helps I think. I should've known ocd would latch onto this π
@Hopeforthefuture I'd say proceed with caution, you still never know with the internet. Get to know him :) take your time!
@alexisrae1999 That's what I figured I would do. I mean I would never give anything super sensitive or where exactly I am in Ohio even. I figured the state was okay. I just keep second guessing myself now!
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