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I’ve had ocd all my life and at one point I convinced myself that I was schizophrenic, turned out it was just my ocd making me think that. It can be a really scary feeling but it is important to keep reminding yourself that ocd is a doubting condition that makes you question everything, even doubting you have the condition. If you’re feeling very anxious rn and need to relax I recommend going on a walk. Or even going outside in the sun barefoot. Being outside, especially barefoot, is very grounding. I also recommend journaling. It helps to get all your thoughts down on paper to see that they are not as big and scary as you originally thought. Hope this helps a little!❤️
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Is it normal to feel detached from reality with OCD? And also Is it normal for OCD to get worse before it gets better?
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@Amagicmarie I have this same theme. I had horrible anxiety thinking about if my life was real and thought I had schizophrenia. But I went to NOCD therapist and started ERP and I learned a lot about EOCD. It can feel worse before it gets better, but really every exposure is pushing you in the right direction if you try to stop ruminating and doing other compulsions. Best of luck
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@Anonymous I feel like everytime I try to keep mind busy, it just ends up building inside of me until I can't take it anymore and I go into a full blown panic attack. Idk how people on here can just keep their mind busy. My mind is thinking "the world isn't real" no matter what I'm doing
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@Amagicmarie I totally feel that too. It’s not about keeping you’re mind busy though. It’s about accepted the intrusive thoughts and uncertainty
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@Anonymous Any tips for that? Because right now I'm bawling my eyes out and i just wanna give up
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@Amagicmarie The best thing that happened to me was realizing that my compulsion is to try to disprove the fact that the world might not be. Like I would always try to fight the thought off with evidence. You have to try to not do anything like that. Additionally as far as the schizophrenia fears, what I realized is that there’s a real difference between anxiety and have delusions. You shouldn’t try to reassure yourself too much, but it’s likely if your aware of this as being an issue then you probably don’t have psychosis of any kind.
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@Anonymous Thank you! I'm just tired of being in a 24/7 panic attack. I miss my old life. And I want it back so bad.
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@Amagicmarie This is a podcast that really helped me understand OCD: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7an640SEH9SxrA8sdnc5ZK?si=skfwymmaRxatfI_nAiiVFw&dl_branch=1
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@Anonymous I listen to that podcast too! I listened to the one on existential ocd but it wasn't too helpful. Do you have any in particular that you reccomend?
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@Amagicmarie Yeah the existential one wasn’t amazing. The one I sent you a link to I highly recommend. Also there’s a few more where he interviews the same guy which also are very good. Then there’s another one I think called “fear of going crazy” that was helpful to me
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It is normal, I’m feeling really detached from reality today. And my ocd has gotten significantly worse this past year, but with therapy and self care I feel myself getting better every week. Reminding yourself that the negative thoughts and feelings you have are because of ocd is very helpful when you are having lows like this. Hang in there! Everything is going to be okay!
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Thank you. It just feels like when I'm making progress, I feel better for a little bit then I get way way worse and IDK why. Existential OCD and derealization don't mix well. My brain convinces me that I'm crazy
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Hey guys so I’m new here and just recently started struggling with some health ocd and thinking I had a brain tumor but it’s taken a turn for the worse and become this existential ocd where I’m questioning quite literally everything in my life, the purpose of being here and stuff. I just started meds yesterday, which is scary for me cause I’ve never been on them before. I keep having thoughts like, why does everything feel like a blur, what’s the meaning of this and I wake up every day with just existential dread. I’ve been having very vivid dreams that make dreaming and reality confusing I also am scared cause I’m dealing with some DP/DR as well. I just wish my life could go back to a few months ago before I knew all of this was possible. I guess I’m just writing this too get it off my chest and see if any of you all have gone through something similar and made it out okay?
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I had a really bad nightmare revolving around one of my big themes and I woke up with the panic still left over the dream as if it was real and I kept thinking about the situations. I tried to tell myself it was just a dream, but then it made me question real life. So then it was a cycle of ruminating about the events as though they were real and my reality which really messed me up bc my biggest theme right now is becoming schizophrenic/catatonic/"crazy." I feel stuck in a loop, I've tried saying the "maybes" and even talking to my partner about other things but it just keeps looping in my head "am I crazy?" "I can't differentiate between dreams" "I feel like I'm stuck in my head and I can't even talk". Any tips? I feel like I'm at the crescendo of my 20 years (lifelong) ocd due to stress from moving soon.
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I’ve been struggling badly lately. It started with a flare-up of stomach issues that made me go down the rabbit hole. I convinced myself that there was something seriously physically wrong with me even though I’ve been to the doctors numerous times and nothing has ever been found. It made me panic daily for weeks on end. All I could focus on was my stomach and the pain. Now my focus has switched and I’m just as afraid. I can’t really put my finger on it but I just feel like there's something wrong with me. I don't know if it's physical or mental. I almost feel like I’ve broken my brain beyond repair from the constant fear, anxiety, and panic. I just feel trapped in my head all of the time and it freaks me out. The harder I try to escape it the worse it feels. I’ve started to become so aware of my every thought to the point that I can hardly sleep at night. Everything around me just feels so strange. I feel strange. Now I’m just constantly monitoring how I feel and if I’m back to normal. At the same time I’ve been having a lot of existential thoughts like “what’s my purpose,” “what’s the meaning of life,” “do I actually enjoy anything,” “am I happy or will I ever be happy?” I feel like I can’t enjoy anything because I’m always thinking about these things. I’m the most depressed I’ve ever been before. Every second of every day feels like pure torture. My brain tells me that I’ll never get better and that no one will be able to help me. I have no hope.
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