GummyDrop
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- 4y
whatadooowhatadooo
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- 4y
I didn't get boobs until 23 lol you're perfect the way you are..
mumfybmumfyb
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- 4y
Hi there, sorry to hear about that. As you’re only 16, you’re still developing so your boobs may grow a bit more once you reach 21? I believe that’s the age women stop growing… if you don’t notice any change in their size by then, it’s best to just learn to accept them. I was in the same position where I wished I had bigger boobs just so that I looked older. I have a young face and I’m short for my age, so that doesn’t help 😂 then I realised that it didn’t matter? Many people don’t care once you’re out of school. I think it’s something every teenage girl wishes they had just so that they can be noticed or look older? But honestly, don’t stress about it. And I heard that smaller boobs are better! Google the benefits, haha. I hope this has helped!
GummyDropGummyDrop
- Date posted
- 4y
I feel like everyone is looking at me even I feel as the teachers notice. Or if someone is mean to me I think it’s cause they look down on me cause I’m “abnormal” than all the other girls
GummyDropGummyDrop
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- 4y
Since now I’m in a school setting there’s a lot of comparing myself to other girls. And I wanted to force feed to gain weight so I grow boobs then again if I eat too full my anxiety will come and it’ll be harder to breath since my stomach is bloated I’m so heartbroken I think if the world was blind I won’t have to self sabotage. I’ve already broke down and have bad anxiety getting though school. I don’t know if this problem is an underlining issue but I just want to be happy
mumfybmumfyb
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- 4y
@GummyDrop I can understand that. But you shouldn’t have to gain weight and make your anxiety worse just to get bigger boobs. There shouldn’t be any of this “comparing” business in your school, but it’s just the way society is nowadays. Have you tried talking to a counsellor on here?
GummyDropGummyDrop
- Date posted
- 4y
@Iona Barker I’ll be getting a therapist soon cause the person who interviewed me yesterday will present my problems in a office meeting to see who has a open slot as my therapist hopefully my therapist will open up a door inside me that is invisible to me. And I have a doctor appointments next month maybe I’ll discuss this problem with my doctor. It sucks hiding yourself when you deserve light to your name. This all started when I was JUST 10 years old my mom and her friend told me to grow BOOBS AT 10 or no boys will like me. Even since then when it’s hot I refused to take off my hoodie and my mom asked me WHY like seriously? This insecurity is a sunken scar within my soul it’s too deep to bring it up to surface to heal. Even in the media and worst in porn they show women with big boobs
mumfybmumfyb
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- 4y
@GummyDrop That’s good that you’re doing something about it. Definitely discuss it with your doctor. You’ve been brave and open to share this with us, so that’s a sign that you want to do something about it!
GummyDropGummyDrop
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- 4y
@Iona Barker Yes it was a bad idea to go to porn to see big boobs and that what I need if I wanted to man and then comparing I know that place is so false.
ZippedupZippedup
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- 4y
I’m guessing because you’re focused on other girls/women with bigger chests, you’re not noticing that other people also have smaller chests. I remember it felt like I had a spotlight on me and everyone was looking at me all through middle and high school. I stopped feeling that way sometime during college. It gets better, you get less self-conscious and more comfortable in your own skin.
GummyDropGummyDrop
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- 4y
So your telling me to focus on smaller chest people? It does feel like a spotlight on me
ZippedupZippedup
- Date posted
- 4y
@GummyDrop No, I’m not saying that. I’m just saying your perspective might be skewed that everyone looks different than you do.
GummyDropGummyDrop
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- 4y
@Zippedup So what about the spotlight thing I feel like teachers notice and feel bad or sum
ZippedupZippedup
- Date posted
- 4y
@GummyDrop It gets better as you get older. Most people are worried about themselves. If teachers are really looking at your chest, that sounds pretty concerning!
GummyDropGummyDrop
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- 4y
@Zippedup I don’t know if they are I’m pretty sure they aren’t and it’s in my head like “what if they noticed”
GummyDropGummyDrop
- Date posted
- 4y
@Zippedup It’s just in my head like if they had a bad day so they’re mean I take it as “omg they’re treating me differently cause I have small boobs” I doubt it but it’s a thought this shit exhausting
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